"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sh1t test or no?

Igottaprobmang

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I had been gaming this one girl for a while now, and she was showing alot of positive signs. However, our relationship started to die because we didn't talk to each other for awhile. She has never rejected me, always flirts with me whenever she gets the chance, and i can tell by her body language that she is interested (whenever she talks to me her voice is slightly higher than usual, her eyes dialate, she plays with her hair and fixes it alot when or before talking to me, etc). But, it seemed she began to hang with her ex-boyfriend again. Sure that bugged me a little, and when she was walking with him and she saw me, she'd smile and say "Hey igottaprobmang!", and I wouldn't even look at her and say "Waddup". When i used my preferals and looked slightly towards her, her head went down like she was sad.

But here's the story changer. Earlier before xmas break, I did a performance and lets just say almost every girl that saw it all of a sudden saw me differently. They would chatter amongst themselves saying that Igottaprobmang is so cute and hot. I felt like a true alphamale. So the girl that I used to pursue (the one i described in the above paragraph), changed as well. When she caught sight of me in the hallway she congratulated me on the performance and said i looked so hot. When she said this, she didn't seem like the normal girl I've been talking to, she seemed more intimidated by me, but her eyes still dialated (alot more). Later when i headed to my computer class, her best friend came up to me and said that she thinks I should get with her (the girl i've been 'gaming'). I responded "I thought she was seeing ex-boyfriend". She then responded "Well, she's making a mistake and i think you should be the one to date her, they're just seeing each other and probably wont get together again because of their last relationship" (she was not smiling nor did she have a normal gesturing face at this point, she had those concerned eyes). Now im not sure if she's just a good actor or what not, but It convinced me. Now i'm wondering if this is all a **** test. As i see it, because of the performance i did, she probably saw me as "the great catch" afterwords, especially when all those girls in school talked about me. And i've noticed, she hasn't hung around her ex-boyfriend after the performance either. Whats also funny is everytime her ex-boyfriend sees me, he stares at me as if he wants to fight. I stare at him back and he walks away (hah). So help me guys, be the judge. What do you think? **** test or not?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Elky

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Don't wast time. You want her? go get her. She isn't married, she isn't even going out with anyone. I'd say **** it. Who cares if its a s*** test or not. She's obviously interested, so go take some action.
 

PleasureKing

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dude, stop wasting your time, and go get her. just call this a risk, and take it.
if this turns out to be a mistake, you can call it experience. if its not a mistake, you can call this your success.

you have nothing to lose, but everything to gain.

once again, go get her.

peace
The PleasureKing
 
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