"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sh!t you can say to make a girl say awww

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hey guys i just wondering if any one can advise me and other guys that might be interested in knowing what to say to make a girl say aww thats so sweet

the reason i wanna know is cuz im saying to the girl im talking to, oo i love you, ooo i miss you and stuff like that but then i start feeling really repetative. And i know some of you might say, hey just say watever comes from the heart, but u know what sometimes the heart dosent feel like talking, and some of us are just trying to get laid lol no im kidding, but what would ya recommend, like something general that we can say to the ladiez that makes em' say awww your so cute UNZIP YOUR PANTS! lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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confidently bring up/ make a reference to an old memory you cherished
 

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Are you talking about pillow-talk? If so, I can tell you like, a billion different things to say, lol.
 

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Monkey said:
Shut your mouth and kiss her with passion.

Let actions talk for you.
That pretty much sums it up!

You don't want to be that guy that talks a woman into saying "awwww" that is some sh1t she likes to do with her girlfriends or her gay guy friends when she sees something cute and harmless (having sex with you is never cute or harmless so why would you want her to associate you with being the opposite?!)

Stop saying I love you and I miss you, no wonder she runs the other direction when you keep on saying that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Deacon

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Have you guys ever had girlfriends before? They love it when you say that mushy bullsh*t. I mean, you ain't gonna get the girl if you just spout out stupid lovestruck garbage, but if she's attracted to you, she'll like it when you say "I miss you," or "you're so beautiful."

This PUA and DJ stuff sometimes gets a little out of hand. Practical experience will tell you that some of the stuff they teach you is a little over-the-top.
 
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The Deacon said:
Have you guys ever had girlfriends before? They love it when you say that mushy bullsh*t. I mean, you ain't gonna get the girl if you just spout out stupid lovestruck garbage, but if she's attracted to you, she'll like it when you say "I miss you," or "you're so beautiful."

This PUA and DJ stuff sometimes gets a little out of hand. Practical experience will tell you that some of the stuff they teach you is a little over-the-top.

And how long would you be with a girl before you say "I miss you"? I think saying too soon can be the kiss of death.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
And how long would you be with a girl before you say "I miss you"? I think saying too soon can be the kiss of death.
It all depends on the social context. If she drops by your apartment, hugs you, and kisses you on your lips, and holds you for a couple of seconds... it's okay to say "hey baby, i really miss you." It doesn't really matter even if the last time you saw her was three hours before.
 

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The Deacon said:
Have you guys ever had girlfriends before? They love it when you say that mushy bullsh*t. I mean, you ain't gonna get the girl if you just spout out stupid lovestruck garbage, but if she's attracted to you, she'll like it when you say "I miss you," or "you're so beautiful." .
Use it spranigly is the word.

You say too much of this sh1t and she will think she owns you and if a girl thinks she owns you, she might go look for someone else who won't kiss her ass on command.

It is very dangerous for some guys to be caught up in LTR and become comfortable with it to the point that they forget all about what attracted this girl to them in the first place. This relationship fantasy people are having that "once you are in love, you can keep your guard down" is false. You are constantly being tested even if you are unaware of it, that is the nature of the beast.
 

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DJDamage said:
It is very dangerous for some guys to be caught up in LTR and become comfortable with it to the point that they forget all about what attracted this girl to them in the first place. This relationship fantasy people are having that "once you are in love, you can keep your guard down" is false. You are constantly being tested even if you are unaware of it, that is the nature of the beast.
You hit the nail on the head there. That's pretty much what I was trying to explain.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Look sad and tell her that your underprivledged starving african pen pal died, as long as you can keep serious you can pretty much make up any cause of death.
 

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YOU: I jack off to your pictures everynight.

HER: AWWW!! thats so sweet!:flowers:
 
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The Deacon said:
It all depends on the social context. If she drops by your apartment, hugs you, and kisses you on your lips, and holds you for a couple of seconds... it's okay to say "hey baby, i really miss you." It doesn't really matter even if the last time you saw her was three hours before.
That sounds alright I guess... but when does the madness stop? Do you start sending "i miss you"...texts... I miss her right now but i'm not ready to go to there at all and I may never be going back there.

I am being very very cautious with this one I have learned my lesson the hard way that becoming AFC will destroy you in the end.

Why can't the woman say she misses us? Is there some kind of rule the guy has to start saying it first?
 

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The biggest awwwws I've seen a guy get was this guy kissing his unborn baby inside his wife's stomach. All the women in the room were melting. I find when a man can show a nurturing and sensitive side toward kids or animals you will get alot of awwwwws. Walk through the park with a cute puppy and I'm sure you'll get alot of attention........
 

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BuckwildNYC said:
The biggest awwwws I've seen a guy get was this guy kissing his unborn baby inside his wife's stomach. All the women in the room were melting. I find when a man can show a nurturing and sensitive side toward kids or animals you will get alot of awwwwws. Walk through the park with a cute puppy and I'm sure you'll get alot of attention........
Agree 100%.:yes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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