"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sh!t Test

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Okay so I've been chatting to a girl for ages, in fact we even went on a date a few months back and went really good but we live 60 miles apart .. But we just started talking again .. And I can't figure her out .. It's all a little cryptic, one minute she's like we should meet up .. And then the other I just can't figure her out. She texted me this this morning and I can't help but think it's a sh!t test ...

'Working tomorrow got so much on and then seeing family Sunday you? Meant to be going on date tomorrow night but dunno if Cba'

Either that or she genuinely isn't interested .. It looks like she's trying to make me jealous. It also might seem like she's not interested but she's always snapchatting me naughty pics etc .. Should I next ? Cheers
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Seems like she wants to be online pals. Its fuels her need for attention. I'd play along with it if you are getting what you want. Some night when you are both sitting at home with nothing to do, start sexting, get her turned on and meet her half way for some hot sechs!
 

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Stop analyzing.

If you want to f*ck this woman then make a move. Make a move or move on to someone else. Sh!t or get off the pot.

I don't know why men waste their time and torture themselves "wondering" when all they have to do is make a move. You know where you stand with ANY woman when you force her to make a decision. MAKE A MOVE.

Also.. the relationship should be on your terms. If you're "wondering" then the relationship is on the woman's terms. Ask yourself why you are letting a woman rule you.
 

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Hey just going to back off .. I didn't reply to her last text which didn't really warrant a reply .. And she sent me a snapchat last night .. It's kind of like because I didn't reply to her message she send me that to let me know she's still there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So today she sends me a snapchat of some new baby link lingerie ... So I reply saying something along the lines of 'nice ... Is that for your date later?' To which she responded 'Haha no wearing the boring black one saving that pink one for you Rolling eyes emoji' haha!
 

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why are you feeding her ego? Welcome to being the new planet orbiting around her golden sun.
 

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You can't fvck her through texting. Stop wasting your time and get her on another date. And if you didn't fvck her on the first date you have no way of actually knowing if the date went well.
 

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Well you were all right ... Not texted her since Saturday and heard nothing .. We normally use what's app .. And we both been online at the same time and still .. NOTHING! Next
 

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Well you were all right ... Not texted her since Saturday and heard nothing .. We normally use what's app .. And we both been online at the same time and still .. NOTHING! Next
Dont let it bother you dude. Just go find another one out of the hundreds that want to go out and have fun.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aesthetix29

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I am doing pal ... Not heard off in a week! Obviously not interested .. It's cool, she was nothing but a drop in the ocean
 

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Check this out ... The little ho just messaged me saying 'Oiiiiiii X' after a week no NC .. I'd say the hamsters spinning haha
 
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