"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sh*t test, what they are and how to not fail them.
- Thread starter ElStud
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
rather the thought process behind the sh.it test is subconcious at the chicks end...lots are even "instinctive"/"reflex" actions the women have (due to lots of choads always appraoching them being wired/lame...etc...or ASD...)...it weeds out the AFC's... only guys who are indifferent/unnafected by said tests stay= they are more likely high value menzekko said:
loads of the FR's around (not here tho - on RSDnation/rsdhotseat infield videos or the attraction forums) have where guys get told to F-off [or insert alternative phrase here] then later on either get a # or get laid with the chick ... ive expeienced this if real life too, many of u guys have aswell probably
if the girl is still talking to you ... ASSUME ATTRACTION!
zekko
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If your girlfriend hugs another guy, there are 2 ways to react to the situation:
1 You think: 'this is a test, the best way to react is to pretend like I don't care'.
2 You honestly don't care because you believe in yourself
The first way leads you to a world of games, tests, paranoia and endless reading of pick-up material. A world where the focus is on women and you walk with a mask through life to hide your true, pathetic self. Jackin' off in your basement on sosuave theories to plan your next step in your relationship.
The second way leads to a world where everything flows automatically. A world where your're a natural and the focus is on you.
Which way do you prefer huh?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Proselytiser
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