"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sh*t test, what they are and how to not fail them.
- Thread starter ElStud
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
rather the thought process behind the sh.it test is subconcious at the chicks end...lots are even "instinctive"/"reflex" actions the women have (due to lots of choads always appraoching them being wired/lame...etc...or ASD...)...it weeds out the AFC's... only guys who are indifferent/unnafected by said tests stay= they are more likely high value menzekko said:
loads of the FR's around (not here tho - on RSDnation/rsdhotseat infield videos or the attraction forums) have where guys get told to F-off [or insert alternative phrase here] then later on either get a # or get laid with the chick ... ive expeienced this if real life too, many of u guys have aswell probably
if the girl is still talking to you ... ASSUME ATTRACTION!
zekko
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If your girlfriend hugs another guy, there are 2 ways to react to the situation:
1 You think: 'this is a test, the best way to react is to pretend like I don't care'.
2 You honestly don't care because you believe in yourself
The first way leads you to a world of games, tests, paranoia and endless reading of pick-up material. A world where the focus is on women and you walk with a mask through life to hide your true, pathetic self. Jackin' off in your basement on sosuave theories to plan your next step in your relationship.
The second way leads to a world where everything flows automatically. A world where your're a natural and the focus is on you.
Which way do you prefer huh?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Proselytiser
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