"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sh*t test, what they are and how to not fail them.
- Thread starter ElStud
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
rather the thought process behind the sh.it test is subconcious at the chicks end...lots are even "instinctive"/"reflex" actions the women have (due to lots of choads always appraoching them being wired/lame...etc...or ASD...)...it weeds out the AFC's... only guys who are indifferent/unnafected by said tests stay= they are more likely high value menzekko said:
loads of the FR's around (not here tho - on RSDnation/rsdhotseat infield videos or the attraction forums) have where guys get told to F-off [or insert alternative phrase here] then later on either get a # or get laid with the chick ... ive expeienced this if real life too, many of u guys have aswell probably
if the girl is still talking to you ... ASSUME ATTRACTION!
zekko
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If your girlfriend hugs another guy, there are 2 ways to react to the situation:
1 You think: 'this is a test, the best way to react is to pretend like I don't care'.
2 You honestly don't care because you believe in yourself
The first way leads you to a world of games, tests, paranoia and endless reading of pick-up material. A world where the focus is on women and you walk with a mask through life to hide your true, pathetic self. Jackin' off in your basement on sosuave theories to plan your next step in your relationship.
The second way leads to a world where everything flows automatically. A world where your're a natural and the focus is on you.
Which way do you prefer huh?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Proselytiser
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