Sh!t test or shove off? BPD or brush off?

[jimjam]

Gents:

Met this one on Saturday. Hit it off great. We both seemed really into one another. I get her number, set up a date for Thursday. She texts me Sunday morning, Monday morning. Nothing wild. Just hi, good morning. I figure i'd be nice and text her yesterday. No response. Its like she went ghost. Of course, I'm not going to contact her.

Wondering if i broke frame or if she's testing me to see if I'll break down and contact her. Plus, I wonder about BPD. I know initial intense interest may be an indicator. I mean, she te c ts me two days in a row after an initial half-hour meeting?

Opinions?

Thanks

 

[Die Hard]

So if I understand correctly, she texted you on Sunday and Monday but you didn't respond both times and waited till Tuesday until you finally sent a response?

Of course she's gonna return you the favor! Hell, I would throw away your number INSTANTLY if I was her!

There's a difference between making her hamster spin a little by NOT RESPONDING IMMEDIATELY or being a total azzhole to her by IGNORING HER FOR TWO WHOLE DAYS...

 

[jimjam]

Sorry

I responded both times.....in kind with her.....good morning, have a nice day

 

[jimjam]

Or......

I'm just overthinking

 

[Malcontent]

Not really enough data to say BPD. And I do agree that you waited too long to respond.

 

[jimjam]

Here's an update: Surprise, surprise! She wants to reschedule tonight's date. I'm thinking of rescheduling, then calling her a day before to cancel with no mention of rescheduling. What does everyone think?

 

[GS750]

high interest doeesnt indicate BPD. Do a search and you'll find a pretty big list of things that indicate that she may be a cluster B. You see those signs then you bail.

 

[sodbuster]

WHY are you going to go through the trouble of acting like a b1tch? go ahead and reschedule the date... things DO come up in life. IF she bails, lose the number. But don't cancel just to act like a woman..... Men have better things to do than play stupid head games..... IF you have a life,live it...

 

[jimjam]

Thanks, Sobduster. That's just what I needed. Really. Not being facetious.