Just an example, when I'm talking with my GF and we ran out of topics, she sometimes say: "say something" or "tell me a story". If she says that, my mind just goes blank! I can't think of anything to say. I seriously need help, guys. Thanks.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Sh*t, I Think I Seriously Lack Spontaneity
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dabrant29
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Dude I wouldn't ask for a blow job. Thats funny though. That definitely shows she wants to listen to the things you have to say. Take for example me i am a Music Ed Major right. WEll Last night i had a 45 min voice recital singing in front of about 1000 people. Before i went i i tried to remember my words and i couldn't even think of any in all 15 of my songs i blanked out. Then i went out there and preformed and did awesome didn't even forget one word. I just let the music take over me. When you try to think of stuff to say things never will come out right. Just go with every day stuff in the present. People get so caught up in the Past and the future they can't really get over themselves enough to enjoy the now. You don't got to impress her man seems like your a stud. Girls love to talk about themselves so the best thing is to have a good ear because listening is much different from " hearing" someone. Don't be boring go out and get into fun stuff like make her realize that when shes with you its awesome. Confidence is key. Cause those times and memories you build stick and create trust and loyalty as well as bond that is deeper then we usually see on the service believing isn't always seeing
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Yeah BE LIKE shut and Suck my **** bIt CH
Dabrant29
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Wow you guys seriously are you really that shallow? how would you like it if some girl said STFU and take me shopping I show respect cause thats how you get respect talking like that has no respect.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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yeah I was kiddin BUT sometimes girls like that...
ready123
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Fela, I don't know if you've identified a methodology that works for you but spontaneity is linked with natural game. You become naturally spontaneous when you're able to shut off the logical part of your brain and just ride the vibe of the interaction. This is the opposite of what a lot of beginners do, where they try to micromanage a conversation in real-time.
Here's an article about spontaneity. It might help.
Here's an article about spontaneity. It might help.
Dabrant29
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Hey LJC last time i checked its good to have morals obviously you have none! thats probably why you got no game...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The key is to let HER be the entertainer. Let her do most of the talking by asking interesting open ended questions, reward her for her answer and then relate to it. That's how you become a good conversationalist.Fela Kuti said:
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Whenever there's a lull in the conversation or she's just blabbing on about something unimportant I just tell her "shut up and kiss me." Works wonders.
bukowski_merit
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he was jokingDabrant29 said:
but even if he wasn't - the hell is wrong with what he said?
it's funny, and catches people off guard
women: 'talk to me! please say something'
me: 'ok, why don't we talk about this ******* you're getting ready to give me (or) this sex we're getting ready to have'
if you couldn't say that to a girl and not get smacked in the face - maybe you're the one without game.
keep dating those wholesome amish women
they bake good pies
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All God does is watch us and kill us when we get boring. We must never, ever be boring.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
but to answer the poster -
just say anything and go with it...
talk about whatever
if she doesn't like the topic (sports)
she'll let you know
and you can get a laugh out of it.
just say anything and go with it...
talk about whatever
if she doesn't like the topic (sports)
she'll let you know
and you can get a laugh out of it.