Just an example, when I'm talking with my GF and we ran out of topics, she sometimes say: "say something" or "tell me a story". If she says that, my mind just goes blank! I can't think of anything to say. I seriously need help, guys. Thanks.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sh*t, I Think I Seriously Lack Spontaneity
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dabrant29
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Dude I wouldn't ask for a blow job. Thats funny though. That definitely shows she wants to listen to the things you have to say. Take for example me i am a Music Ed Major right. WEll Last night i had a 45 min voice recital singing in front of about 1000 people. Before i went i i tried to remember my words and i couldn't even think of any in all 15 of my songs i blanked out. Then i went out there and preformed and did awesome didn't even forget one word. I just let the music take over me. When you try to think of stuff to say things never will come out right. Just go with every day stuff in the present. People get so caught up in the Past and the future they can't really get over themselves enough to enjoy the now. You don't got to impress her man seems like your a stud. Girls love to talk about themselves so the best thing is to have a good ear because listening is much different from " hearing" someone. Don't be boring go out and get into fun stuff like make her realize that when shes with you its awesome. Confidence is key. Cause those times and memories you build stick and create trust and loyalty as well as bond that is deeper then we usually see on the service believing isn't always seeing
trojanman88
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Yeah BE LIKE shut and Suck my **** bIt CH
Dabrant29
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Wow you guys seriously are you really that shallow? how would you like it if some girl said STFU and take me shopping I show respect cause thats how you get respect talking like that has no respect.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
trojanman88
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yeah I was kiddin BUT sometimes girls like that...
ready123
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Fela, I don't know if you've identified a methodology that works for you but spontaneity is linked with natural game. You become naturally spontaneous when you're able to shut off the logical part of your brain and just ride the vibe of the interaction. This is the opposite of what a lot of beginners do, where they try to micromanage a conversation in real-time.
Here's an article about spontaneity. It might help.
Here's an article about spontaneity. It might help.
Dabrant29
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Hey LJC last time i checked its good to have morals obviously you have none! thats probably why you got no game...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The key is to let HER be the entertainer. Let her do most of the talking by asking interesting open ended questions, reward her for her answer and then relate to it. That's how you become a good conversationalist.Fela Kuti said:
MooseGod
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Whenever there's a lull in the conversation or she's just blabbing on about something unimportant I just tell her "shut up and kiss me." Works wonders.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
he was jokingDabrant29 said:
but even if he wasn't - the hell is wrong with what he said?
it's funny, and catches people off guard
women: 'talk to me! please say something'
me: 'ok, why don't we talk about this ******* you're getting ready to give me (or) this sex we're getting ready to have'
if you couldn't say that to a girl and not get smacked in the face - maybe you're the one without game.
keep dating those wholesome amish women
they bake good pies
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All God does is watch us and kill us when we get boring. We must never, ever be boring.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
but to answer the poster -
just say anything and go with it...
talk about whatever
if she doesn't like the topic (sports)
she'll let you know
and you can get a laugh out of it.
just say anything and go with it...
talk about whatever
if she doesn't like the topic (sports)
she'll let you know
and you can get a laugh out of it.