Just an example, when I'm talking with my GF and we ran out of topics, she sometimes say: "say something" or "tell me a story". If she says that, my mind just goes blank! I can't think of anything to say. I seriously need help, guys. Thanks.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Sh*t, I Think I Seriously Lack Spontaneity
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dabrant29
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Dude I wouldn't ask for a blow job. Thats funny though. That definitely shows she wants to listen to the things you have to say. Take for example me i am a Music Ed Major right. WEll Last night i had a 45 min voice recital singing in front of about 1000 people. Before i went i i tried to remember my words and i couldn't even think of any in all 15 of my songs i blanked out. Then i went out there and preformed and did awesome didn't even forget one word. I just let the music take over me. When you try to think of stuff to say things never will come out right. Just go with every day stuff in the present. People get so caught up in the Past and the future they can't really get over themselves enough to enjoy the now. You don't got to impress her man seems like your a stud. Girls love to talk about themselves so the best thing is to have a good ear because listening is much different from " hearing" someone. Don't be boring go out and get into fun stuff like make her realize that when shes with you its awesome. Confidence is key. Cause those times and memories you build stick and create trust and loyalty as well as bond that is deeper then we usually see on the service believing isn't always seeing
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Yeah BE LIKE shut and Suck my **** bIt CH
Dabrant29
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Wow you guys seriously are you really that shallow? how would you like it if some girl said STFU and take me shopping I show respect cause thats how you get respect talking like that has no respect.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
trojanman88
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yeah I was kiddin BUT sometimes girls like that...
ready123
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Fela, I don't know if you've identified a methodology that works for you but spontaneity is linked with natural game. You become naturally spontaneous when you're able to shut off the logical part of your brain and just ride the vibe of the interaction. This is the opposite of what a lot of beginners do, where they try to micromanage a conversation in real-time.
Here's an article about spontaneity. It might help.
Here's an article about spontaneity. It might help.
Dabrant29
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Hey LJC last time i checked its good to have morals obviously you have none! thats probably why you got no game...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The key is to let HER be the entertainer. Let her do most of the talking by asking interesting open ended questions, reward her for her answer and then relate to it. That's how you become a good conversationalist.Fela Kuti said:
MooseGod
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Whenever there's a lull in the conversation or she's just blabbing on about something unimportant I just tell her "shut up and kiss me." Works wonders.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
he was jokingDabrant29 said:
but even if he wasn't - the hell is wrong with what he said?
it's funny, and catches people off guard
women: 'talk to me! please say something'
me: 'ok, why don't we talk about this ******* you're getting ready to give me (or) this sex we're getting ready to have'
if you couldn't say that to a girl and not get smacked in the face - maybe you're the one without game.
keep dating those wholesome amish women
they bake good pies
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All God does is watch us and kill us when we get boring. We must never, ever be boring.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
but to answer the poster -
just say anything and go with it...
talk about whatever
if she doesn't like the topic (sports)
she'll let you know
and you can get a laugh out of it.
just say anything and go with it...
talk about whatever
if she doesn't like the topic (sports)
she'll let you know
and you can get a laugh out of it.