"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Shîtty Shîtty worst, most pathetic evening. Advice PLEASE.

LinkinParkROX

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I usually have plenty good plates to spin, and am satisfied with my game & myself on most occasions. Tonight was different. I just got back from it. I got her to kino me back a tiny bit with very little hand touching & stuff. My kino was still top game. Now the problem is, I don't get any IOIs from this girl. Any. She doesn't touch me. I don't know why, she's probably shy. Plus, I disappointed myself today when I thought of a good move to make, but pussied out. Also, she kept saying I was gay, which would've been smooth of me to respond with a kiss (maybe on the cheek), saying "Yeah, so gay. ;)". But again, I pussied out.

I didn't follow my cock and do it, I hesitated because I don't get any IOIs from this girl. I know it's better to get rejected than to feel how I'm feeling now, but what if it was all awkward after? Plus, we've got lots of mutual friends, and she would've told them that I tried to make a move on her and stuff. I ended up taking her home. No close. I feel like a major major loser/chump right now and it sucks with all my mates asking me for FRs and I have to say nothing happened. Fuck this girl. I think I'm friendzoned or whatever for my lack of movemaking, but I don't get any IOIs. She's probably uninterested, I'm nexting her. There's my awesome rant. Any one with their two cents?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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IOIs are for p.ssies man!

Go in there and get a proper rejection.


Still, always look at the bright side, you're going out there, you're trying to make it happen. There will always be set backs. Keep pushing on
 
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