"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Shîtty Shîtty worst, most pathetic evening. Advice PLEASE.

LinkinParkROX

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I usually have plenty good plates to spin, and am satisfied with my game & myself on most occasions. Tonight was different. I just got back from it. I got her to kino me back a tiny bit with very little hand touching & stuff. My kino was still top game. Now the problem is, I don't get any IOIs from this girl. Any. She doesn't touch me. I don't know why, she's probably shy. Plus, I disappointed myself today when I thought of a good move to make, but pussied out. Also, she kept saying I was gay, which would've been smooth of me to respond with a kiss (maybe on the cheek), saying "Yeah, so gay. ;)". But again, I pussied out.

I didn't follow my cock and do it, I hesitated because I don't get any IOIs from this girl. I know it's better to get rejected than to feel how I'm feeling now, but what if it was all awkward after? Plus, we've got lots of mutual friends, and she would've told them that I tried to make a move on her and stuff. I ended up taking her home. No close. I feel like a major major loser/chump right now and it sucks with all my mates asking me for FRs and I have to say nothing happened. Fuck this girl. I think I'm friendzoned or whatever for my lack of movemaking, but I don't get any IOIs. She's probably uninterested, I'm nexting her. There's my awesome rant. Any one with their two cents?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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scrouds

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IOIs are for p.ssies man!

Go in there and get a proper rejection.


Still, always look at the bright side, you're going out there, you're trying to make it happen. There will always be set backs. Keep pushing on
 
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