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Master Don Juan
Honestly man, I think your game is rather tight from what I read, but how much money have you spent in the last month with the intent of getting laid?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
SGDJ, question to ask
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Master Don Juan
Holy **** that was a quick reply.
Lol 50 dollars eh? Does that count gas to drive downtown, money to feed yourself while your there?
Dont get me wrong, It's just that I feel spending ridiculous amoutns of money on chasing girls, is ridiculous.
Lol 50 dollars eh? Does that count gas to drive downtown, money to feed yourself while your there?
Dont get me wrong, It's just that I feel spending ridiculous amoutns of money on chasing girls, is ridiculous.
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Master Don Juan
Well, how do you present to her that she is going to pay for the date? Do you stand at the cash register looking at her when the time comes? Lol. Some advice would be cool.
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Master Don Juan
Lol I actually did that once, in a real experiemental moment, I just stood there lookin' at her like she's gonna lay down the cash and it totally caught her off guard. The date didn't go very well from there but it's part of the road I suppose.
belividere
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So I'm not SGDJ (yeah that was solely to be a smartass GGTW) but dates dont have to be expensive or extravagent. With a girl I have no prior experience with I will just ask her out for coffee. I'm cheap as hell so I will sometimes show up a little early and make her pay for her own triple shot maple nut crunch soy latte. The first time I go out with a girl is an opportunity for me to qualify her. I like to keep it low key. If an immediate attraction is felt than I'll graduate to either doing something right away or scheduling something in the close future.
I try to spend enough time with a girl before I even get a number to qualify a first date though. In that situation, idealistic to say the least, I wont place expectations on who pays but fully expect that if the date goes on that she would at least offer. Dropping a couple of bucks in the short term when it helps me realize that I should give up in the long run is money saved. It's 2005 and women want to be equal. They should at the very least not be scared to offer to pay there own way.
I try to spend enough time with a girl before I even get a number to qualify a first date though. In that situation, idealistic to say the least, I wont place expectations on who pays but fully expect that if the date goes on that she would at least offer. Dropping a couple of bucks in the short term when it helps me realize that I should give up in the long run is money saved. It's 2005 and women want to be equal. They should at the very least not be scared to offer to pay there own way.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
Your "phone game" really does need some work
