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Master Don Juan
Honestly man, I think your game is rather tight from what I read, but how much money have you spent in the last month with the intent of getting laid?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SGDJ, question to ask
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Master Don Juan
Holy **** that was a quick reply.
Lol 50 dollars eh? Does that count gas to drive downtown, money to feed yourself while your there?
Dont get me wrong, It's just that I feel spending ridiculous amoutns of money on chasing girls, is ridiculous.
Lol 50 dollars eh? Does that count gas to drive downtown, money to feed yourself while your there?
Dont get me wrong, It's just that I feel spending ridiculous amoutns of money on chasing girls, is ridiculous.
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Master Don Juan
Well, how do you present to her that she is going to pay for the date? Do you stand at the cash register looking at her when the time comes? Lol. Some advice would be cool.
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Master Don Juan
Lol I actually did that once, in a real experiemental moment, I just stood there lookin' at her like she's gonna lay down the cash and it totally caught her off guard. The date didn't go very well from there but it's part of the road I suppose.
belividere
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So I'm not SGDJ (yeah that was solely to be a smartass GGTW) but dates dont have to be expensive or extravagent. With a girl I have no prior experience with I will just ask her out for coffee. I'm cheap as hell so I will sometimes show up a little early and make her pay for her own triple shot maple nut crunch soy latte. The first time I go out with a girl is an opportunity for me to qualify her. I like to keep it low key. If an immediate attraction is felt than I'll graduate to either doing something right away or scheduling something in the close future.
I try to spend enough time with a girl before I even get a number to qualify a first date though. In that situation, idealistic to say the least, I wont place expectations on who pays but fully expect that if the date goes on that she would at least offer. Dropping a couple of bucks in the short term when it helps me realize that I should give up in the long run is money saved. It's 2005 and women want to be equal. They should at the very least not be scared to offer to pay there own way.
I try to spend enough time with a girl before I even get a number to qualify a first date though. In that situation, idealistic to say the least, I wont place expectations on who pays but fully expect that if the date goes on that she would at least offer. Dropping a couple of bucks in the short term when it helps me realize that I should give up in the long run is money saved. It's 2005 and women want to be equal. They should at the very least not be scared to offer to pay there own way.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
Your "phone game" really does need some work
