"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sexy neighbour treats me with respect

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Philippe Schlichting

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I moved in a new flat and the first day after I woke up I realized after going out of my flat door that my neighbour is a 8. She greets me and smiles but it is the "we are neighbours so I greet him with a smile" smile, like the "hello" when meeting another male living in the same house as you to keep the peace while I am thinking "what an ugly bastard" while he might be thinking the same. If the girl and I happened to meet on the street without her being my neighbour she wouldn't look at me not to mention smile at me.

How do I use the fact that she is forced to be "nice" to my advantage to have sex with her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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All it does it make it easier for you to interact with her on an indirect level and DHV. Let the chips fall as they may cause it could get awkward fast.

Keep in mind, she has friends...
 
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I would give the same advice for dating or sleeping with women who are your neighbors as I would for women that you work with. DON'T.

There are plenty of women out there that you don't work with and who are not your neighbors. Go meet and talk to them.
 
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Omerta said:
All it does it make it easier for you to interact with her on an indirect level and DHV. Let the chips fall as they may cause it could get awkward fast.

Keep in mind, she has friends...
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Fvck her friends.

No, I mean literally, Fvck them.
XD
 
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Philippe Schlichting

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Omerta said:
Keep in mind, she has friends...
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I don't see where you're going with this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Philippe Schlichting said:
I don't see where you're going with this.
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be a cool friendly guy, then meet her friends?
 
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