"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sexy neighbour treats me with respect

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I moved in a new flat and the first day after I woke up I realized after going out of my flat door that my neighbour is a 8. She greets me and smiles but it is the "we are neighbours so I greet him with a smile" smile, like the "hello" when meeting another male living in the same house as you to keep the peace while I am thinking "what an ugly bastard" while he might be thinking the same. If the girl and I happened to meet on the street without her being my neighbour she wouldn't look at me not to mention smile at me.

How do I use the fact that she is forced to be "nice" to my advantage to have sex with her?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Omerta

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All it does it make it easier for you to interact with her on an indirect level and DHV. Let the chips fall as they may cause it could get awkward fast.

Keep in mind, she has friends...
 

Aristippus

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I would give the same advice for dating or sleeping with women who are your neighbors as I would for women that you work with. DON'T.

There are plenty of women out there that you don't work with and who are not your neighbors. Go meet and talk to them.
 

nroug7

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Omerta said:
All it does it make it easier for you to interact with her on an indirect level and DHV. Let the chips fall as they may cause it could get awkward fast.

Keep in mind, she has friends...
Fvck her friends.

No, I mean literally, Fvck them.
XD
 
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Omerta said:
Keep in mind, she has friends...
I don't see where you're going with this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kbomb

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Philippe Schlichting said:
I don't see where you're going with this.
be a cool friendly guy, then meet her friends?
 
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