Sexy is... Emotional Maturity

[ethnomethodologist]

Being calm, when somebody calls you out in front of your girl.
Not snapping at someone when they make a lame joke.
Not insulting people uselessly without there being humor inflected.

Emotionally mature guys can control themselves around a woman. Ever hear that patience is the defined sense of confidence? Well that is one of the overlappins functions of the social dynamic. Being emotionally mature means you can control your emotions, your emotions don't spur you into ecstasy without there being good reason.

This site thrives on emotional immaturity though.

What is emotional maturity to you guys? How do you notice it in people?

How can you tell a 30 year old crybaby, from an 18 year old man?

 

[Egoist]

for once i agree with you.

never lose your cool, be it in a tight spot or around a beautiful woman.

 

[theSpeculator]

A lot of you can talk the talk. But can you walk the walk?

Emotional secure people tend to have high self-esteem. They alway seems very calm most of the time. You will see it in the way they act. As a rule of thumb, they tend to act more mature.

While emotional insecure people are the opposite. They tend to act very immature.

 

[Adone]

Really good post, dude!