"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sexy As Hell.. But Damaged Broken Woman!

soulforge

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Threads like this tells me why there’s a million “bpd” threads. You guys seek out these women willingly just because they are “hot” and then blame something else.

The sex comes with a price. Everyone knows that.

But if that’s your wavelength- toxic romance, then keep at it. But stop making the same threads complaining about the same type of woman ad nauseam. It’s a broken record at so suave.

An empty vessel is a void. And from that void comes neediness and neuroticness. The Mind cannot be a vacuum. It must be occupied with some sponsoring thought. The sponsoring thought of “I don’t love myself” is responsible for all sorts of neurotic behavior. And it seems like a lot of you guys attract these women on an energetic level. So what does that say about you?

This is right.. Dudes often get involved with chicks like this, and convince themselves that it's just sex.. She is only a FWB..

Months down the line, he catches feelings and is now in a LTR with her.

Next.. Another BDP thread opens up on SS


This is why I suggest.. You should only bang a chick like this 6-8 weeks maximum, then bounce!!!

Or.. Simply stay away
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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derby1

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But don't MOST woman.
This is what concerns me brother, i see endless men with this "oh well" mindset

Women do NOT have "standards". A standard is a flag that soldiers fought under and the symbol on that flag represented the values of the kingdom they fought for. The values of a society come from the men.....and when we let this value drop, women cause chaos,They also cause Devolution......
 

Carson02

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How many drug hits does a user take before he walks away? In terms of the relationship, probably around the beginning of the devaluation phase. Then the physical and/or emotional withdrawal phase of addiction kicks in.
 

soulforge

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How many drug hits does a user take before he walks away? In terms of the relationship, probably around the beginning of the devaluation phase. Then the physical and/or emotional withdrawal phase of addiction kicks in.
Yeh true.. That kinky filthy sex becomes the addiction.. That's how you sink into the cluster b quicksand.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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