“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

sexually kino'ed chick and said she doesn't let guys do that but 'trusts' me, f.zone?

nando

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2007
Messages
213
Reaction score
1
I grabbed her hips and she said she normally wouldn't let a guy do that but she trusts me cuz I have "good intentions". Does that mean I am in the friend zone? She does kino by grabbing my shoulders and arms but aside from that she is pretty conservative girl.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

SharinganUser

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2006
Messages
1,776
Reaction score
50
Are you seriously asking this question??? You had a green light. When she said she "trusts you" it meant she trusts you to **** her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

nando

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2007
Messages
213
Reaction score
1
thanks for the responses guys. The reason I thought she might have put me in the friendzone is she never really initiates convos with me, and her responses to my sms's (if she does respond) are u usually really short answers. She always talks about how great a friend I am, I feel like the gay friend who gets to grope her or some ****. The only thing that makes me think maybe I have a chance is she is very curious about my sex life and past gfs. This is very confusing for me guys. :(
 

lghost

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 27, 2008
Messages
46
Reaction score
2
nando said:
I grabbed her hips and she said she normally wouldn't let a guy do that but I'm good
GREEN LIGHT INDEED! if you didn't know the whole story!

nando said:
I feel like the gay friend who gets to grope her or some ****. The only thing that makes me think maybe I have a chance is she is very curious about my sex life and past gfs. This is very confusing for me guys.
RED LIGHT! You have no confidence and are on a message board asking for help because your confused. (I'm no exception) If you really feel this way( gay friend ) around her then I'm sure you act this way around her and she was telling you not to get any ideas. If you feel like a gay friend then you act like a gay friend and your treated like a gay friend. Do you have any hope? I dunno but I do know guys don't understand their feelings sometimes and maybe your just posting and asking the " what if " questions. That alone is a no no because a true Don Juan doesn't focus on the what ifs. Don't post what if's but post what IS(how you act around her), and then you can be accessed more accurately. Also, how old are you two?
 
Top