Sexual tension and playing too safe

[crowolf]

Hello, guys.

I am posting this thread because I (and many others) struggle with this. Playing too safe, not escalating and struggling to build that sexual tension.

From my knowledge - you build the sexual tension with subcommunaction (voice tonality, eye contact etc.) and also being a man who is direct.

My game is indirect for the most part. I can build attraction but I'm not good at being sexual and flirting.

Share your knowledge and experience about this, so you can give a great insight to many people browsing this forum and learning how to be the best version of themselves.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

The whole idea behind sexual tension is holding back and showing restraint. There is intent in the eyes and physicality ... you just don't put it in a hole.

It is not just sitting back and letting the window of opportunity pass on by when attraction is barely there.