"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sexual tension and playing too safe

crowolf

crowolf

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Hello, guys.

I am posting this thread because I (and many others) struggle with this. Playing too safe, not escalating and struggling to build that sexual tension.

From my knowledge - you build the sexual tension with subcommunaction (voice tonality, eye contact etc.) and also being a man who is direct.

My game is indirect for the most part. I can build attraction but I'm not good at being sexual and flirting.

Share your knowledge and experience about this, so you can give a great insight to many people browsing this forum and learning how to be the best version of themselves.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MillionBillionaire

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The whole idea behind sexual tension is holding back and showing restraint. There is intent in the eyes and physicality ... you just don't put it in a hole.

It is not just sitting back and letting the window of opportunity pass on by when attraction is barely there.
 
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