"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hi
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I am a little confused. I have read in some articles that is good to show your sexual state in your body language, they say no to masturbate and being in a sexual state so that you can in any way translate this state to your girl.
But I have read in others that you shouldnt show your sexual state because this make the girl barriers up. I am little confused, anyone can explain me this better.
Griña
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Griña
Hi
Buddies
I am a little confused. I have read in some articles that is good to show your sexual state in your body language, they say no to masturbate and being in a sexual state so that you can in any way translate this state to your girl.
But I have read in others that you shouldnt show your sexual state because this make the girl barriers up. I am little confused, anyone can explain me this better.
Griña
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If your game isnt great dont do too much to bring up her barriers, and if you game is excellent barriers are useless. All mental barriers are, are logical thoughts to not be effected by the words of another, but if your game is good you can convince her why dog crap is more nutrutional then carrots.
 
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Someone on this site once said "that when your words can bring her heaven or hell" then you have your game tight!
 
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Sexual state is an essential part of the direct approach. To pull of direct you need to be confident and congruent. Barriers appear when u start using indirect game (playing games) and at the same time coming on. Incongruence.

In overal in sexual state things get easier and shields go down because you don't play games, and they know u mean business.
 
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