Sexual State

[Griña]

Hi
Buddies
I am a little confused. I have read in some articles that is good to show your sexual state in your body language, they say no to masturbate and being in a sexual state so that you can in any way translate this state to your girl.
But I have read in others that you shouldnt show your sexual state because this make the girl barriers up. I am little confused, anyone can explain me this better.
Griña

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by Griña
Hi
Buddies
I am a little confused. I have read in some articles that is good to show your sexual state in your body language, they say no to masturbate and being in a sexual state so that you can in any way translate this state to your girl.
But I have read in others that you shouldnt show your sexual state because this make the girl barriers up. I am little confused, anyone can explain me this better.
Griña

If your game isnt great dont do too much to bring up her barriers, and if you game is excellent barriers are useless. All mental barriers are, are logical thoughts to not be effected by the words of another, but if your game is good you can convince her why dog crap is more nutrutional then carrots.

 

[MrHarris]

Someone on this site once said "that when your words can bring her heaven or hell" then you have your game tight!

 

[SheepSter]

Sexual state is an essential part of the direct approach. To pull of direct you need to be confident and congruent. Barriers appear when u start using indirect game (playing games) and at the same time coming on. Incongruence.

In overal in sexual state things get easier and shields go down because you don't play games, and they know u mean business.