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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Sexual Harassment

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612_Da_Playa

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When is kino, too much kino? I've never had a problem with this but when is too much? When is it considered harassment?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by 612_Da_Playa
When is kino, too much kino? I've never had a problem with this but when is too much? When is it considered harassment?
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Let's say a total fat ugly nerd went up to a girl and touched her on the shoulder, gave her a hug, and had his hands on her hips. She'd be like "ewwwww gross"

Let's say the guy she's had her eyes on did the same thing. She'd want more.

To the girl, the top is sexual harassment. The bottom is playful touching.

If you're somewhere in the middle, touch little, and if she appears uncomfortable, STOP IT. She doesn't have to say "stop touching me".
 
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Re: Re: Sexual Harassment

Originally posted by AC/DC
Let's say a total fat ugly nerd went up to a girl and touched her on the shoulder, gave her a hug, and had his hands on her hips. She'd be like "ewwwww gross"

Let's say the guy she's had her eyes on did the same thing. She'd want more.

To the girl, the top is sexual harassment. The bottom is playful touching.

If you're somewhere in the middle, touch little, and if she appears uncomfortable, STOP IT. She doesn't have to say "stop touching me".
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Well, technically if she doesn't tell you to stop it's not considered sexual harrassment, but you're right just because she doesn't say stop doesn't mean she automatically likes it. You have to look for signals.
 
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A girl can call it harassment whenever it suits her. I heard of a sexual harassment case that involved a guy opening a door for a lady. I'm not kidding about that.
 
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