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When is kino, too much kino? I've never had a problem with this but when is too much? When is it considered harassment?
 

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Originally posted by 612_Da_Playa
When is kino, too much kino? I've never had a problem with this but when is too much? When is it considered harassment?
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Let's say a total fat ugly nerd went up to a girl and touched her on the shoulder, gave her a hug, and had his hands on her hips. She'd be like "ewwwww gross"

Let's say the guy she's had her eyes on did the same thing. She'd want more.

To the girl, the top is sexual harassment. The bottom is playful touching.

If you're somewhere in the middle, touch little, and if she appears uncomfortable, STOP IT. She doesn't have to say "stop touching me".
 
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Re: Re: Sexual Harassment

Originally posted by AC/DC
Let's say a total fat ugly nerd went up to a girl and touched her on the shoulder, gave her a hug, and had his hands on her hips. She'd be like "ewwwww gross"

Let's say the guy she's had her eyes on did the same thing. She'd want more.

To the girl, the top is sexual harassment. The bottom is playful touching.

If you're somewhere in the middle, touch little, and if she appears uncomfortable, STOP IT. She doesn't have to say "stop touching me".
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Well, technically if she doesn't tell you to stop it's not considered sexual harrassment, but you're right just because she doesn't say stop doesn't mean she automatically likes it. You have to look for signals.
 
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A girl can call it harassment whenever it suits her. I heard of a sexual harassment case that involved a guy opening a door for a lady. I'm not kidding about that.
 
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