"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sexting

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Whats everyones take on sending/receiving explicit/picture texts/emails?

good/bad, forbidden? past experiences?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WaterTiger

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It's considered porn, so if you have it on your phone and you're underage, it's illegal.

So is having your underage girlfriend send you boobie shots.

It's only annoying when you break up with the girl and she posts the pics YOU sent as "THE TINIEST PECKER IN THE NORTHERN HEMISPHERE!"

...of course you post her pics as "THE BIGGEST SKANK ON THE PLANET!"


....then it just gets ugly...
 

Phat

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Its creepy. Its desperite. Its not real!
 

King Turi

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Nah, never quite understood how people can get into that kind of thing.

Each to their own though, I suppose.
 

r0cky

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I was messing with this chick a couple years ago and she used to send me a lot of pics of herself naked ( she was a D cup so i wasnt complaining). A couple of times tho I could see on the message that there were around 3 -5 other recipents.
I think the type of chicks that do stuff like that cant be trusted because you're probably not the only one thats getting her pics.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SmoothTalker

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I would say don't do it, even with people you truly trust.

People change, relationships go sour, and lovestruck soulmates come to hate each other's guts.

It's risky enough on a computer, but on a cell phone it's even worse because it's pretty common for somebody to lose/steal/borrow your phone. The possibility of leaks is much greater.
 
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