"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whats everyones take on sending/receiving explicit/picture texts/emails?

good/bad, forbidden? past experiences?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WaterTiger

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It's considered porn, so if you have it on your phone and you're underage, it's illegal.

So is having your underage girlfriend send you boobie shots.

It's only annoying when you break up with the girl and she posts the pics YOU sent as "THE TINIEST PECKER IN THE NORTHERN HEMISPHERE!"

...of course you post her pics as "THE BIGGEST SKANK ON THE PLANET!"


....then it just gets ugly...
 

Phat

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Its creepy. Its desperite. Its not real!
 

King Turi

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Nah, never quite understood how people can get into that kind of thing.

Each to their own though, I suppose.
 

r0cky

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I was messing with this chick a couple years ago and she used to send me a lot of pics of herself naked ( she was a D cup so i wasnt complaining). A couple of times tho I could see on the message that there were around 3 -5 other recipents.
I think the type of chicks that do stuff like that cant be trusted because you're probably not the only one thats getting her pics.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SmoothTalker

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I would say don't do it, even with people you truly trust.

People change, relationships go sour, and lovestruck soulmates come to hate each other's guts.

It's risky enough on a computer, but on a cell phone it's even worse because it's pretty common for somebody to lose/steal/borrow your phone. The possibility of leaks is much greater.
 
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