Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sexting games. What's going on here?

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I met this HB8 a while back but didn't really pursue it.
But a couple of weeks ago she texts me saying how she's bored and lonely and about to smash herself with a vibrator.
I texted back "hope you have fun with that"
She wrote back that next time she sees me she's going to get me drunk and have her way with me.
Since then she's flaked twice when we organised to meet and just last night she texts saying "I'm not wearing any undies".
After reading another post here recently about a guy's female friend sending similar texts to a guy and getting no response, I didn't reply.
Then this morning she texts saying how she just smashed my cl1t with my vibrator". I didn't reply again.

So what happens now? I've invested very little time, no money and no emotions on this chick but I really want to fvck her.

I'm hoping not replying whips her into a frenzy where she realises I'm only going to respond to direct invitations of sex.
But is there some other way to handle this? Should I text her something sexy back or is that just feeding her ego and playing into her hands?

Cheers.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stop texting and call her and push for a meet up. If she evades, ditch the number and forget about her, she's just attention whooring it up.
 
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scrouds said:
Stop texting and call her and push for a meet up. If she evades, ditch the number and forget about her, she's just attention whooring it up.
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This 100%. Some women know how to get their needs met without giving it up. In this scenario, she gets hers, but you don't get yours. Push for a meet up, if she won't commit, never talk to her again. There are plenty of AFCs that will play this game with her. Don't be that guy.
 
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Sounds like a nut case to me.
Who says stuff like that then doesn't finish the conversation.
Yep, a nut case.

If you ever do get to jump her, make sure it's at her place in case she breaks sh1t.

SH
 
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Yeah, now that you guys mention it, she is a bit of a weirdo which is why I didn't pursue her after I met her and got her number.

I'll maintain radio silence.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jhl said:
Potential BPD......run.
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I'd definitely agree with this. BPD's have a strong affinity for sexting and not committing to in-person visits unless it serves their interests.
 
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