"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sexting games. What's going on here?

Greasy Pig

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I met this HB8 a while back but didn't really pursue it.
But a couple of weeks ago she texts me saying how she's bored and lonely and about to smash herself with a vibrator.
I texted back "hope you have fun with that"
She wrote back that next time she sees me she's going to get me drunk and have her way with me.
Since then she's flaked twice when we organised to meet and just last night she texts saying "I'm not wearing any undies".
After reading another post here recently about a guy's female friend sending similar texts to a guy and getting no response, I didn't reply.
Then this morning she texts saying how she just smashed my cl1t with my vibrator". I didn't reply again.

So what happens now? I've invested very little time, no money and no emotions on this chick but I really want to fvck her.

I'm hoping not replying whips her into a frenzy where she realises I'm only going to respond to direct invitations of sex.
But is there some other way to handle this? Should I text her something sexy back or is that just feeding her ego and playing into her hands?

Cheers.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stop texting and call her and push for a meet up. If she evades, ditch the number and forget about her, she's just attention whooring it up.
 
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scrouds said:
Stop texting and call her and push for a meet up. If she evades, ditch the number and forget about her, she's just attention whooring it up.
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This 100%. Some women know how to get their needs met without giving it up. In this scenario, she gets hers, but you don't get yours. Push for a meet up, if she won't commit, never talk to her again. There are plenty of AFCs that will play this game with her. Don't be that guy.
 
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Sounds like a nut case to me.
Who says stuff like that then doesn't finish the conversation.
Yep, a nut case.

If you ever do get to jump her, make sure it's at her place in case she breaks sh1t.

SH
 
Greasy Pig

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Yeah, now that you guys mention it, she is a bit of a weirdo which is why I didn't pursue her after I met her and got her number.

I'll maintain radio silence.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jhl said:
Potential BPD......run.
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I'd definitely agree with this. BPD's have a strong affinity for sexting and not committing to in-person visits unless it serves their interests.
 
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