Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Sext/dated gal, heard she has a boyfriend.

BoneSpurs

New Member
Joined
Apr 10, 2016
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Hi, been reading this site the last month, decided to join. Need opinions on how to continue. Met a gal on tinder, she started asking a lot of questions. I ignored her and left it open ended asking for her number. 2 days Ignoring her, out of the blue she sends it. I called her up and asked her out. She said she had plans that night so I disappeared again. Then the texting started and the snapchat. I kept it light, lots of banter, and short. After a couple days she seems to start snap chatting "good morning" stuff and trying to get me to text more. She left me the whole "I guess your dead?" " I just want to know what you're up to" lines. I went off on her after working a 14 hour overnight, her good morning text woke me up 2 hours into sleeping. I waited till that night and told her she woke me up, I was mad, tired, and i will contact her if I want to hang out with her. She apologized excessively and what not.

Now she kept texting and I ignored most of it. So Just to make her leave I started talking super dirty and over the top like romantic erotica stuff. Problem is she ate it up and loved it. She was sending snaps of all the goodies and such. I was like come on over and she said "soon". I would play the "I want another pic of your sexy thong or tits in the morning or that's another spanking". Every time she sent a snap.

Now I heard through the grapevine she has a boyfriend, I skulked her Facebook and found it to be true. She's sending all these nudes, likes that I want to dominate her, and all this other stuff, and calls me bad and she likes it. After I learned this, I haven't talked to her in 3 days. But something deep inside me says I should conquer her and seduce her to boink her and move on. Would an attention ***** send nudes if she wasn't DTF?

Obviously the best route is to not give anymore attention and she has a BF. But what would be an ultimate panty dropper to get her over if she already sends nudes?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

hockeyfreak79

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 15, 2013
Messages
1,038
Reaction score
337
Face palm on the dreaded good morning text. This is typical of a broad looking to monkey branch. Nice job on the background check etc.

Just keep playing the game the way you are & eventually the bf will piss her off to the breaking point. What was it 40-50% of tinder are already in RLs? Just try to get her out & take it from there. Be fvking smart & wrap it up you never know with these tinder svlts.
 

EyeBRollin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2015
Messages
10,536
Reaction score
8,536
Age
37
She has a boyfriend. Eject.

Next time she contacts you tell her you want to take her out and to contact you when she's single and available. She'll probably delete your number, but if you've tickled her fancy at all she will seek you out when she drops him.

Then GHOST. Meet single women.
 

Tictac

Banned
Joined
Jul 28, 2009
Messages
3,668
Reaction score
1,244
Location
North America, probably an airport
Hi, been reading this site the last month, decided to join. Need opinions on how to continue. Met a gal on tinder, she started asking a lot of questions. I ignored her and left it open ended asking for her number. 2 days Ignoring her, out of the blue she sends it. I called her up and asked her out. She said she had plans that night so I disappeared again. Then the texting started and the snapchat. I kept it light, lots of banter, and short. After a couple days she seems to start snap chatting "good morning" stuff and trying to get me to text more. She left me the whole "I guess your dead?" " I just want to know what you're up to" lines. I went off on her after working a 14 hour overnight, her good morning text woke me up 2 hours into sleeping. I waited till that night and told her she woke me up, I was mad, tired, and i will contact her if I want to hang out with her. She apologized excessively and what not.

Now she kept texting and I ignored most of it. So Just to make her leave I started talking super dirty and over the top like romantic erotica stuff. Problem is she ate it up and loved it. She was sending snaps of all the goodies and such. I was like come on over and she said "soon". I would play the "I want another pic of your sexy thong or tits in the morning or that's another spanking". Every time she sent a snap.

Now I heard through the grapevine she has a boyfriend, I skulked her Facebook and found it to be true. She's sending all these nudes, likes that I want to dominate her, and all this other stuff, and calls me bad and she likes it. After I learned this, I haven't talked to her in 3 days. But something deep inside me says I should conquer her and seduce her to boink her and move on. Would an attention ***** send nudes if she wasn't DTF?

Obviously the best route is to not give anymore attention and she has a BF. But what would be an ultimate panty dropper to get her over if she already sends nudes?
Listen to the song "So Much Better On Line".

LOL
 

CMNILS87

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2016
Messages
902
Reaction score
662
Age
39
Disappear for awhile and make her contact you. If you really lit a fire under her ass, she'll keep your phone number on hand just in case she wants some fun when she boots the boyfriend.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Top