"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi, been reading this site the last month, decided to join. Need opinions on how to continue. Met a gal on tinder, she started asking a lot of questions. I ignored her and left it open ended asking for her number. 2 days Ignoring her, out of the blue she sends it. I called her up and asked her out. She said she had plans that night so I disappeared again. Then the texting started and the snapchat. I kept it light, lots of banter, and short. After a couple days she seems to start snap chatting "good morning" stuff and trying to get me to text more. She left me the whole "I guess your dead?" " I just want to know what you're up to" lines. I went off on her after working a 14 hour overnight, her good morning text woke me up 2 hours into sleeping. I waited till that night and told her she woke me up, I was mad, tired, and i will contact her if I want to hang out with her. She apologized excessively and what not.

Now she kept texting and I ignored most of it. So Just to make her leave I started talking super dirty and over the top like romantic erotica stuff. Problem is she ate it up and loved it. She was sending snaps of all the goodies and such. I was like come on over and she said "soon". I would play the "I want another pic of your sexy thong or tits in the morning or that's another spanking". Every time she sent a snap.

Now I heard through the grapevine she has a boyfriend, I skulked her Facebook and found it to be true. She's sending all these nudes, likes that I want to dominate her, and all this other stuff, and calls me bad and she likes it. After I learned this, I haven't talked to her in 3 days. But something deep inside me says I should conquer her and seduce her to boink her and move on. Would an attention ***** send nudes if she wasn't DTF?

Obviously the best route is to not give anymore attention and she has a BF. But what would be an ultimate panty dropper to get her over if she already sends nudes?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hockeyfreak79

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Face palm on the dreaded good morning text. This is typical of a broad looking to monkey branch. Nice job on the background check etc.

Just keep playing the game the way you are & eventually the bf will piss her off to the breaking point. What was it 40-50% of tinder are already in RLs? Just try to get her out & take it from there. Be fvking smart & wrap it up you never know with these tinder svlts.
 

EyeBRollin

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She has a boyfriend. Eject.

Next time she contacts you tell her you want to take her out and to contact you when she's single and available. She'll probably delete your number, but if you've tickled her fancy at all she will seek you out when she drops him.

Then GHOST. Meet single women.
 

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Hi, been reading this site the last month, decided to join. Need opinions on how to continue. Met a gal on tinder, she started asking a lot of questions. I ignored her and left it open ended asking for her number. 2 days Ignoring her, out of the blue she sends it. I called her up and asked her out. She said she had plans that night so I disappeared again. Then the texting started and the snapchat. I kept it light, lots of banter, and short. After a couple days she seems to start snap chatting "good morning" stuff and trying to get me to text more. She left me the whole "I guess your dead?" " I just want to know what you're up to" lines. I went off on her after working a 14 hour overnight, her good morning text woke me up 2 hours into sleeping. I waited till that night and told her she woke me up, I was mad, tired, and i will contact her if I want to hang out with her. She apologized excessively and what not.

Now she kept texting and I ignored most of it. So Just to make her leave I started talking super dirty and over the top like romantic erotica stuff. Problem is she ate it up and loved it. She was sending snaps of all the goodies and such. I was like come on over and she said "soon". I would play the "I want another pic of your sexy thong or tits in the morning or that's another spanking". Every time she sent a snap.

Now I heard through the grapevine she has a boyfriend, I skulked her Facebook and found it to be true. She's sending all these nudes, likes that I want to dominate her, and all this other stuff, and calls me bad and she likes it. After I learned this, I haven't talked to her in 3 days. But something deep inside me says I should conquer her and seduce her to boink her and move on. Would an attention ***** send nudes if she wasn't DTF?

Obviously the best route is to not give anymore attention and she has a BF. But what would be an ultimate panty dropper to get her over if she already sends nudes?
Listen to the song "So Much Better On Line".

LOL
 

CMNILS87

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Disappear for awhile and make her contact you. If you really lit a fire under her ass, she'll keep your phone number on hand just in case she wants some fun when she boots the boyfriend.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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