"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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highkid

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Hey so i have been hooking up with this girl lately and we both really like eachother and she wants to have sex . She is not a virgin and i am. For some reason it bothers me and i dont want to lose my virginaty to a non virgin.
any advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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if the v-card is something you care about and you think is worth saving... then do what your gut says, save it for the girl you truly like.

people here might say "OMG BLASPHEMY!"

but seriously.

get some dome from her instead.
 

ryannath

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So you don't want to lose to virginity to a non-virgin? Any advice?

Yeah, become a priest because if having sex with a non-virgin bothers you, that is the way to need to go.
 

Plec07

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Listen to Michele, l'Arcangelo. I think the most important thing about being a DJ is something people seem to miss out a lot. You do what you want, you trust your gut, and you don't care what other people tell you.

Sure ask for advice, and if you think it's good advice take it. But don't do something somebody has told you to if you gut is telling you it's a bad idea.

At the same time, however you have to be able to tell the difference between what you gut is saying and what your nerves are saying. There is a fine line between the two.
 

D4rKn3sS

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Also remember that you should never do something that you don't want to do. If not having sex with a non-virgin is the way, then power to you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ryannath

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Sure, any condom will make you last longer. They all suck. I can never nut when I am wearing a condom.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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lol i see how it is...

we give you good advice... then someone justs throws out a random "condoms wear em"

and now all of a sudden you change your mind.
 

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Well I believe in your not having sex with a non virgin philosophy, but it seems that your mind was easily swayed with the condom crack so.

Here's something to change his mind, GO ANAL, your having sex but your not losing your virginity, since you used the back door.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JLW

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SIDEBOARD said:
Well I believe in your not having sex with a non virgin philosophy, but it seems that your mind was easily swayed with the condom crack so.

Here's something to change his mind, GO ANAL, your having sex but your not losing your virginity, since you used the back door.
lmao

YES!!!!!:moon:
 

Bling

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I want to lose my virginity to a virgin, but after that, I don't care if the other person isn't a virgin.
 

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highkid said:
Hey so i have been hooking up with this girl lately and we both really like eachother and she wants to have sex . She is not a virgin and i am. For some reason it bothers me and i dont want to lose my virginaty to a non virgin.
any advice?
Dont fvck her!

YEAH.. find a good hooker!.. if you want.. or otherwise.. wait!
 

Phat

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Men can't be virgins... if you read the bible . they never talk about a virgin man... notice how they only had the virgin marry. or the virgin women of w/e. So shut up and go sex up some girls ;-].
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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