Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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highkid

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Hey so i have been hooking up with this girl lately and we both really like eachother and she wants to have sex . She is not a virgin and i am. For some reason it bothers me and i dont want to lose my virginaty to a non virgin.
any advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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if the v-card is something you care about and you think is worth saving... then do what your gut says, save it for the girl you truly like.

people here might say "OMG BLASPHEMY!"

but seriously.

get some dome from her instead.
 

ryannath

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So you don't want to lose to virginity to a non-virgin? Any advice?

Yeah, become a priest because if having sex with a non-virgin bothers you, that is the way to need to go.
 

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Listen to Michele, l'Arcangelo. I think the most important thing about being a DJ is something people seem to miss out a lot. You do what you want, you trust your gut, and you don't care what other people tell you.

Sure ask for advice, and if you think it's good advice take it. But don't do something somebody has told you to if you gut is telling you it's a bad idea.

At the same time, however you have to be able to tell the difference between what you gut is saying and what your nerves are saying. There is a fine line between the two.
 

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Also remember that you should never do something that you don't want to do. If not having sex with a non-virgin is the way, then power to you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ryannath

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Sure, any condom will make you last longer. They all suck. I can never nut when I am wearing a condom.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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lol i see how it is...

we give you good advice... then someone justs throws out a random "condoms wear em"

and now all of a sudden you change your mind.
 

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Well I believe in your not having sex with a non virgin philosophy, but it seems that your mind was easily swayed with the condom crack so.

Here's something to change his mind, GO ANAL, your having sex but your not losing your virginity, since you used the back door.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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JLW

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SIDEBOARD said:
Well I believe in your not having sex with a non virgin philosophy, but it seems that your mind was easily swayed with the condom crack so.

Here's something to change his mind, GO ANAL, your having sex but your not losing your virginity, since you used the back door.
lmao

YES!!!!!:moon:
 

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I want to lose my virginity to a virgin, but after that, I don't care if the other person isn't a virgin.
 

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highkid said:
Hey so i have been hooking up with this girl lately and we both really like eachother and she wants to have sex . She is not a virgin and i am. For some reason it bothers me and i dont want to lose my virginaty to a non virgin.
any advice?
Dont fvck her!

YEAH.. find a good hooker!.. if you want.. or otherwise.. wait!
 

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Men can't be virgins... if you read the bible . they never talk about a virgin man... notice how they only had the virgin marry. or the virgin women of w/e. So shut up and go sex up some girls ;-].
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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