"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sex worker income predicts general recessions

MatureDJ

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my opinion: Spending on sex workers is pretty much pure disposable income, and so if men don't feel like they have such income, it is one of the luxuries that must go, and that a less costly alternative - e.g., OnlyFans or Chaturbate, or better yet, free p0rn - is substituted. This thesis makes a lot of sense.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Strippers and sex workers (I use that term in this post to describe women paid directly for sex) are similar but not the same. There are different market forces that would affect each of them.

The strip club industry has been declining for the past 10-20 years, regardless of macroeconomic forces. Millennials and Generation Z have less interest in going to strip clubs to see naked women dancing. The popularity of strip clubs has declined as the popularity of high speed broadband internet at home has increased, as well as the popularity of smartphones. Millennials and Gen Z would rather sit at home and watch free pornography on a streaming tube website than go to a strip club to see real life female nudity. As a result of this change in market forces, I believe the Stripper Index is less of an accurate predictor of discretionary spending than it once was.

It would be interesting to see how OnlyFans women are doing lately. Some might be seeing reduced income due to more competition but some might substitute strip club visits for OnlyFans. I don't think OnlyFans would be a good indicator.

Paying directly for sex from a sex worker is different economically than paying to see a stripper dance topless/fully nude on stage. Some men can't get sex unless they pay for sex from a sex worker. For those types of men, paying for sex is not necessarily discretionary spending. Since sex is categorized as a basic human need, the men who need sex workers for sex will pay directly for sex. They'll try to cut other non-discretionary spending before stopping paying for sex. Some men aren't as dependent upon directly paid sex, though they do pay for sex. These men are more discretionary and might pay for less sex.

I think strippers are the more of the discretionary spending indicator than the sex workers. There are also some other leading indicators on discretionary spending that would produce similar results, such as expensive cosmetic procedures and expensive gym memberships.

I agree with the male market analyst in the video that both strippers and sex workers noticing lower earnings is an indicator to be explored. It is similar to a car driver hearing unusual noises in an engine. When a driver hears unusual noises, the driver either needs to explore doing the repair themselves or contact their auto repair facility.
 
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Most of the people who complain about jobs are those who have to do the 9-5, put up with crappy customers, and who have to stretch their pennies in order to barely make ends meet, and some still have to go to food-banks because they still can't afford both groceries and rent. Women choose sex work because they have an option to avoid all of that and make money hand over fist servicing guys. There is already enough indicators the economy is going to the toilet to worry about that.
 
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Can we please finally relegate the euphemism "sex worker" to the dustbin of history(alongside outhouses, Nokia, and Hair Metal), and start referring to these chicks as exactly what they are: Prostitutes
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No, because not all sex workers are prostitutes. Some are strippers, some are OnlyFans 'models'.
Which give us all cause to question the accuracy of terms like "sex worker"... Unless a stripper is actually getting boned by patrons in The VIP room, why do we conflate a broad taking her clothes off on stage with the act of having sex? Ditto with OF thots
 

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Can we please finally relegate the euphemism "sex worker" to the dustbin of history(alongside outhouses, Nokia, and Hair Metal), and start referring to these chicks as exactly what they are: Prostitutes
Personally I prefer the term hor. It sounds more raw. Just one syllible and the way the h sound comes out, plus it sounds funnier as it has a more light and dismissive tone. Like you know she is doing this with everyone.
 
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