"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sex worker income predicts general recessions

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my opinion: Spending on sex workers is pretty much pure disposable income, and so if men don't feel like they have such income, it is one of the luxuries that must go, and that a less costly alternative - e.g., OnlyFans or Chaturbate, or better yet, free p0rn - is substituted. This thesis makes a lot of sense.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Strippers and sex workers (I use that term in this post to describe women paid directly for sex) are similar but not the same. There are different market forces that would affect each of them.

The strip club industry has been declining for the past 10-20 years, regardless of macroeconomic forces. Millennials and Generation Z have less interest in going to strip clubs to see naked women dancing. The popularity of strip clubs has declined as the popularity of high speed broadband internet at home has increased, as well as the popularity of smartphones. Millennials and Gen Z would rather sit at home and watch free pornography on a streaming tube website than go to a strip club to see real life female nudity. As a result of this change in market forces, I believe the Stripper Index is less of an accurate predictor of discretionary spending than it once was.

It would be interesting to see how OnlyFans women are doing lately. Some might be seeing reduced income due to more competition but some might substitute strip club visits for OnlyFans. I don't think OnlyFans would be a good indicator.

Paying directly for sex from a sex worker is different economically than paying to see a stripper dance topless/fully nude on stage. Some men can't get sex unless they pay for sex from a sex worker. For those types of men, paying for sex is not necessarily discretionary spending. Since sex is categorized as a basic human need, the men who need sex workers for sex will pay directly for sex. They'll try to cut other non-discretionary spending before stopping paying for sex. Some men aren't as dependent upon directly paid sex, though they do pay for sex. These men are more discretionary and might pay for less sex.

I think strippers are the more of the discretionary spending indicator than the sex workers. There are also some other leading indicators on discretionary spending that would produce similar results, such as expensive cosmetic procedures and expensive gym memberships.

I agree with the male market analyst in the video that both strippers and sex workers noticing lower earnings is an indicator to be explored. It is similar to a car driver hearing unusual noises in an engine. When a driver hears unusual noises, the driver either needs to explore doing the repair themselves or contact their auto repair facility.
 
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Most of the people who complain about jobs are those who have to do the 9-5, put up with crappy customers, and who have to stretch their pennies in order to barely make ends meet, and some still have to go to food-banks because they still can't afford both groceries and rent. Women choose sex work because they have an option to avoid all of that and make money hand over fist servicing guys. There is already enough indicators the economy is going to the toilet to worry about that.
 
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Can we please finally relegate the euphemism "sex worker" to the dustbin of history(alongside outhouses, Nokia, and Hair Metal), and start referring to these chicks as exactly what they are: Prostitutes
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No, because not all sex workers are prostitutes. Some are strippers, some are OnlyFans 'models'.
Which give us all cause to question the accuracy of terms like "sex worker"... Unless a stripper is actually getting boned by patrons in The VIP room, why do we conflate a broad taking her clothes off on stage with the act of having sex? Ditto with OF thots
 

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Can we please finally relegate the euphemism "sex worker" to the dustbin of history(alongside outhouses, Nokia, and Hair Metal), and start referring to these chicks as exactly what they are: Prostitutes
Personally I prefer the term hor. It sounds more raw. Just one syllible and the way the h sound comes out, plus it sounds funnier as it has a more light and dismissive tone. Like you know she is doing this with everyone.
 
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