"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is sex that much better with someone that’s “your type?” All the women I’ve slept with, I didn’t think they were ugly, but I didn’t feel any attraction for them either beyond maybe casual attraction. Is it that much better with a girl you think is “really hot.” I’m not talking about emotional sex or “in love” sex or anything…I just mean sex with someone who’s your physically perfect type or somewhere close?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sex is amazing with a woman if you are really into her and she is amazingly hot. Nothing comes close.
 
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Then why do guys preach quantity on here? I’ve had sex with women that would be definitely “above average” to most guys, but since I wasn’t into them, it was nothing. I’ve had better masturbation sessions and fantasies.
 
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confusedstate said:
Then why do guys preach quantity on here? I’ve had sex with women that would be definitely “above average” to most guys, but since I wasn’t into them, it was nothing. I’ve had better masturbation sessions and fantasies.
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We don't. It's a personal preference.

Personally i prefer quality. (Also less risk of catching anything!)
 
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I've had sex with the Above Average girl (110lbs, nice hips, tight ass, 5'7", and looked kinda like natalie portman) and it was pretty cool, but could've been better had she known what she was doing and was more adventurous. I feel like hot chicks are great to look at, but when you're ****ing them, it's how they **** that really makes the difference. You want her to **** you back and know how to ride ****.

Initially, when I was first ****ing that girl, I was like so this is what it's like to **** a girl with a model figure. Hmm...OK. After a month of that, I was like "****, this girl is pretty fucking cute...well done, blueline." I didn't even realize how sexy she was until then, and I didn't really appreciate it until then. In fact, I thought she was bat**** insane from the get go, and couldn't really look past that. So initially, I would've been glad to **** a girl that weighed 10 pounds more than her and wasn't so skinny, and I was somewhat actively looking for another girl to **** besides her. Most guys would've been just trying to **** her all the time probably.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Falcon25 said:
Sex is amazing with a woman if you are really into her and she is amazingly hot. Nothing comes close.
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Experienced this earlier this fall and absolutely true. I messed around with a girl who was not my type a few weeks after and it was not even worth it.
If you know what your type is, and there's some serious chemistry, it is one of the best experiences in life.
 
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