"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sex with women your type

confusedstate

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Is sex that much better with someone that’s “your type?” All the women I’ve slept with, I didn’t think they were ugly, but I didn’t feel any attraction for them either beyond maybe casual attraction. Is it that much better with a girl you think is “really hot.” I’m not talking about emotional sex or “in love” sex or anything…I just mean sex with someone who’s your physically perfect type or somewhere close?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Falcon25

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Sex is amazing with a woman if you are really into her and she is amazingly hot. Nothing comes close.
 

confusedstate

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Then why do guys preach quantity on here? I’ve had sex with women that would be definitely “above average” to most guys, but since I wasn’t into them, it was nothing. I’ve had better masturbation sessions and fantasies.
 

search1ng

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confusedstate said:
Then why do guys preach quantity on here? I’ve had sex with women that would be definitely “above average” to most guys, but since I wasn’t into them, it was nothing. I’ve had better masturbation sessions and fantasies.
We don't. It's a personal preference.

Personally i prefer quality. (Also less risk of catching anything!)
 

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I've had sex with the Above Average girl (110lbs, nice hips, tight ass, 5'7", and looked kinda like natalie portman) and it was pretty cool, but could've been better had she known what she was doing and was more adventurous. I feel like hot chicks are great to look at, but when you're ****ing them, it's how they **** that really makes the difference. You want her to **** you back and know how to ride ****.

Initially, when I was first ****ing that girl, I was like so this is what it's like to **** a girl with a model figure. Hmm...OK. After a month of that, I was like "****, this girl is pretty fucking cute...well done, blueline." I didn't even realize how sexy she was until then, and I didn't really appreciate it until then. In fact, I thought she was bat**** insane from the get go, and couldn't really look past that. So initially, I would've been glad to **** a girl that weighed 10 pounds more than her and wasn't so skinny, and I was somewhat actively looking for another girl to **** besides her. Most guys would've been just trying to **** her all the time probably.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Inside Man

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Falcon25 said:
Sex is amazing with a woman if you are really into her and she is amazingly hot. Nothing comes close.
Experienced this earlier this fall and absolutely true. I messed around with a girl who was not my type a few weeks after and it was not even worth it.
If you know what your type is, and there's some serious chemistry, it is one of the best experiences in life.
 
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