Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how possible is it to contract std, if a guy were to have sex (wearing condom) with prostitute once a month on a regular basis?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Noone can give you an exact figure, but considering that your regular prostitute sleeps with ungodly amount of men, some even bareback, I would say that the risk is on the high side of the scale.
 

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Buy a man a hoare and you get him laid for a night. Teach a man to sarge and you get him laid for a lifetime.
- Proverb, Rollo Tomassi
 

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If it smells like fish, it's a dish. If it smells like cologne, leave it alone.
 

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Prostitution is not about sex. Its about desire. Its about a man paying a woman to make him feel desired.

Can anyone answer this deep, deep question?

Is there a dollar value that you can place on a woman's desire?

Many men in our society are desireless.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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learn how to be a DJ and save your money for BEER. :yes:

regards
 

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Why pay for something that's free?
 

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rocco said:
how possible is it to contract std, if a guy were to have sex (wearing condom) with prostitute once a month on a regular basis?
I dont have stats ether.
If you want to go this route make sure you buy a well known name brand condom so it doesnt break on you. Theres some condoms that has some extra stuff added to help fight certain STD contamination. Learn to put on a condom propeerly and dispose iof it properly without touching any of her bodily fluids.
Stay away from prositutes that look like crack addicts or needle users.
Keep a watch for crabs. You can still get that even if you are wearing a condom. At least its treatible.
 

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GirlCrazy said:
Why pay for something that's free?
You are making a HUGE assumption, my friend.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Buy a man a hoare and you get him laid for a night. Teach a man to sarge and you get him laid for a lifetime.
- Proverb, Rollo Tomassi
Best proverb so far... I'm going to make it my screen saver.
 

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is prostitution legal where you are from? if you live in amsterdam or nevada where it is legal, most of the prostitutes are getting screened and you would probally be less likely to contract a disease however if you live where it is not legal, these people dont get screened like they should.
 

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There is an old saying my friend: "Lay down with dogs, get up with fleas"
Just remember these fleas can kill you.
 

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Nothing is free, but some cost a lot more than money!!!!

Here is a good way to find out .... I am thinking of a number between 1 & 3 if you guess it right you might have an STD!

Feel the Burn!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Buy a man a hoare and you get him laid for a night. Teach a man to sarge and you get him laid for a lifetime.
- Proverb, Rollo Tomassi
Sweet.
 

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when you go to a prostitute its not really about 'getting off' if you think about it.

after all its free and much easier to just spank the monkey.

you're going there to feel connected to the opposite sex. and why does that matter? typically its because "feeling connected" gives you a high. you know what they say, love is more powerful an addiction to drugs.

but guess what, you can get the same high from lifting weights.

every now and then ill get that urge to get the "relationship high" and ill go lift some weights. by the end of my weight lifting session i feel on top of the world and now am thinking "man, that was so much better than putting up with some chics bullsh*t just to feel close to someone."

not saying ignore chics, just saying there are other avenues to feeling better aside from banging prostitutes.

and the good side effect ot lifting weights is youll get in shape and chics will be wanting you mroe than you want them.

its really hard for a lot of guys to buy into themselves as the "prize" when they get no attention in the real world. but im telling ya man, hit the weights and get into shape and you wont be able to not think of yourself as the prize - because women will want your attention.

anyway, avoid the prostitutes sh*t if you can. it's taking an unnecessary risk no matter how you cut it.
 

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Well put JOKER. Having sex with a prostitute is never about getting off, it is about experiencing that desire (even if it's paid for up front). You can call this feeling connected, but its genuine feminine desire that a man craves. This is the same reason guys frequent strip clubs. What are you paying for really? The attention and feigned desire of an (relatively) attractive woman. Why are most men in a strip club married? Why do mostly married men pay prostitutes? They are compensating for a deficit in this feminine desire that's being unmet with their wives.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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