"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sex With Older Chics

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MY #1 TIP----shake em after sex.......make sure they are still alive:moon:

#2-they need to be led, so isolate, change venue and then wax that a ss.

#3-the freakier the better, make it hot for them....sleazy hotels, take pictures, etc

#4-keep it as a booty call only, that means hit it, quit it, maybe revisit it.

#5-when at her house......have her make u something to eat.....older chics like to please younger men. So might as well reap the "other" benefits too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I completely agree. I recently met this beautiful woman on the train. I figured her to be 28, but it turns out she was more like 36. Needless to say, she initiated the sex talk and after hitting it, offered to make me dinner, which was really delicious, after that freak wore me out..just gotta watch out, they want to be F#$KED hard!
 

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Sounds to me like you ain't talking from experience....dunno why, just the vibe I get.
 

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who? me? ... I've had a few encounters... older women are fine, but i would rather have a younger one any day of the week.
 

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blackbelt2k said:
who? me? ... I've had a few encounters... older women are fine, but i would rather have a younger one any day of the week.
Na man the guy above you. It just sounds like something of a low rate seduction website....general, obvious things with no specifics.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ohh...but ya know what, i'd really dig a hot older younger combo... that would be awesome... i don't know if i'd want them related...directly... hell, i don't think i would care in the long run...but that would just be awesome, don't you think? lol
 

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blackbelt2k said:
ohh...but ya know what, i'd really dig a hot older younger combo... that would be awesome... i don't know if i'd want them related...directly... hell, i don't think i would care in the long run...but that would just be awesome, don't you think? lol
Yea man for sure. I actually think a mother/daughter would be class. Like, an 18 yr old and a 35 yr old or something, both hot, spanish or some sh.it like that...white girls aren't nearly as hot. :D:D:D
 

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see, i don't know about that.. here in the US, these white girls are putting some phat in the back. The only thing is they don't let you get your freak on as much, unless you get them tipsy.
 

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see, i don't know about that.. here in the US, these white girls are putting some phat in the back. The only thing is they don't let you get your freak on as much, unless you get them tipsy.
Lol...I only know what you mean cos my sis likes watching MTV base. If she didn't...I wouldn't have the faintest what you were on about...ppl don't talk like that here!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol, what are the girls in the UK like?
Errrr the working class ones (chavs) are 98% mingers (thats bad) and the middle class ones are like 92% mingers. You seriously have to meet a lot of girls to find attractive ones....and they're mostly white as well.

I think I'm gonna move to Austin or somewhere in Cali cos the weather is nice, the girls are dark, and Americans love the British accent!!
 
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and Americans love the British accent!!
I've heard the British like American accents as well. My buddy told me he was n a club with his girl who went to the restroom, and some chick comes up to him and asks him if he's american. He says yes and she proceeds to make out with him :) I wanna go to Great Britain!
 

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Older women, make beautiful lovers
Older women, they understand
I've been around some, and I have discovered
That older women know just how to please a man.

(Verse)
Everybody seems to love those younger women
From eighteen on up to twenty-five
Well I love 'em too, but I'm tellin' you
Learnin' how to really love, takes a little time.

(Verse)
So baby don't you worry about growin' older
Those young girls ain't got nothin' in you
'Cause it takes some livin', to get good at givin'
And givin' love is just where you could teach them a thing or two.
 

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I'm 21 and have had sex with a few older women, 26 and 27, and also a 19 yr old, and I must say that I prefer older women. I'm not talking like 40 yr olds, but mid to late 20s. To me it just seems girls younger than 20 are really immature. Idk, I just get a "little girl" vibe from them.
 

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I think I'm gonna move to Austin or somewhere in Cali cos the weather is nice, the girls are dark, and Americans love the British accent!!
Yeah you jerk, you guys have it way too easy when you come over here speaking all commonwealth, those panties just drop.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Serialized3 said:
Yeah you jerk, you guys have it way too easy when you come over here speaking all commonwealth, those panties just drop.
lol...fake it man, just watch a Bond movie and copy...and say "cheers", and "mate" a lot!! :D
 

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Dude, don't go to austin... I've seen alot of commonwealth people in the big cities, like NYC.. hell, i was kicking it to an aupair from south africa a few months ago...there are alot of accents here, you'd like it better
 

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COD said:
#5-when at her house......have her make u something to eat.....older chics like to please younger men. So might as well reap the "other" benefits too.
Very powerful with women of any age. I do this one a lot with younger women, and it is very effective.
 

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Very powerful with women of any age. I do this one a lot with younger women, and it is very effective.

lol, The majority of younger women in the United States don't even know where the kitchen is
 

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that's the belief they've sold you on

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lol, The majority of younger women in the United States don't even know where the kitchen is
You can laugh all you want, but if you're not qualifying THEM, regardless of how old they are, they are doing it to YOU, and they'll keep telling you that they "don't know where the kitchen is", and you'll be ok with it, and buy into it.

The point being, tactic not exclusive to older women. Women of any age are the target here. A couple of years ago, my 20 year old used to cook for me all the time. When they don't know how to cook, I often have them stop somewhere to bring me some food before they get to my place.

My women, at least most of the time, are either eager to come cook for me, to bring something, or to learn to cook something for me. That's just part of the criteria they must meet in order for me to serioulsy consider anything past the physical. I don't apologize for it either. Setting standards will get you far.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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