When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Pakwah said:whats wrong with doing all 5?
Last Man Standing said:She is not a girl!! She is a hor!! This hor is controlling you like the wind controls a feather!!!!!! Everything should be on your terms and not hers!!! Pimps set all terms - hors follow!!
Don't give her the satisfaction of "breaking up" with you then you responding to her every beck and call - you'll look like her fool!!!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Last Man Standing is right on the money.I Want To Be a Playa said:What is wrong with you?
Of course I'm right!!! It's mathematical reasoning!Pakwah said:....i used to think of the day when I would find out that she was pregnant with her new bfs baby.....how i would feel...if she would keep it....and all that.
Well after our little get together last month, she is now 7 days late.....
She doesnt want more kids, though her bf is saying - we could do it - we can make it work - of course she doesn't think so cuz - ohhh - the baby may not be his. She won't keep it. I know that, but now she has to go behind his back and 'lose' the baby.
Drama drama
Maybe, until she gets annoyed with you calling the shots and sends around her trucker boyfriend to level your house with his 18-wheeler.Pakwah said:so i don't need this, but i want it, cuz i can do it and get away with it
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lol, of course she's an attention HOR who just wanted to know if she could hypothetically still HAVE YOU - for validation.Pakwah said:So took some advice today and was over at the ex's and i tried to initiate something, on an off day, when bf was in town, not on her clock and.....
....got shot down.
Though she was enjoying every moment of the attention, still....
Pakwah said:No this was the response i was looking for cuz now i can validate what you guys were saying and know exactly that. So if and when she ever wants it, it will be on my clock...if she is 'lucky' enough. Did i mention to that she said to me that she has not 'got off' since we lasted hooked up....damn guy doesnt even know what he is doing. I asked her to describe me in one word - the word she chose was 'luxury'. Dumb ass boyfriend.....cant satisfy his girl....stupid ass!! LOL
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.