"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sex with my ex

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Last Man Standing said:
She is not a girl!! She is a hor!! This hor is controlling you like the wind controls a feather!!!!!! Everything should be on your terms and not hers!!! Pimps set all terms - hors follow!!

Don't give her the satisfaction of "breaking up" with you then you responding to her every beck and call - you'll look like her fool!!!

What is wrong with you?
 

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Wait, what? Are you seriously trying to figure out what's going on in that ****ed up mind of hers? You do realize that you have to be as ****ed up as she is before it makes sense on ANY level, right? So drop it. Just enjoy the *****! :)
 

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Dude, work on yourself. And are you living at home with your parents ("
She says 'Get your own place so we can have sex all the time'"
) Even though you shouldn't consider this woman as marriage material by now and if you are smart enough to think thoroughly, she is kinda telling you to grow up. Move on, seriously.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I live with my sister, i moved in with her when i left my ex. I am working on myself, got a tattoo, working out, got new clothes, shoes. So thats easy. I just want to see how long i can ride this out for. She had a hot body and like i said, its nice to look at that new bf of hers and think 'i ****ed your girlfriend'.

And thanks y'all for making this my most viewed and most responded post ever.....

In the melancholic ballad "Goodbye my Lover", James pleads with his departed love to remember the good times they had together and try to be his friend.
 
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So took some advice today and was over at the ex's and i tried to initiate something, on an off day, when bf was in town, not on her clock and.....
....got shot down.

Though she was enjoying every moment of the attention, still....

This is the funny thing, i used to think of the day when I would find out that she was pregnant with her new bfs baby.....how i would feel...if she would keep it....and all that.

Well after our little get together last month, she is now 7 days late.....
She doesnt want more kids, though her bf is saying - we could do it - we can make it work - of course she doesn't think so cuz - ohhh - the baby may not be his. She won't keep it. I know that, but now she has to go behind his back and 'lose' the baby.

Drama drama
 
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Pakwah said:
....i used to think of the day when I would find out that she was pregnant with her new bfs baby.....how i would feel...if she would keep it....and all that.

Well after our little get together last month, she is now 7 days late.....
She doesnt want more kids, though her bf is saying - we could do it - we can make it work - of course she doesn't think so cuz - ohhh - the baby may not be his. She won't keep it. I know that, but now she has to go behind his back and 'lose' the baby.

Drama drama
Of course I'm right!!! It's mathematical reasoning!

For all you Capt'n-Sav-A-hos - read and behold what Pakwah just stated!!! This hor who has children already is in some more drama!!

Who is the baby's daddy? She doesn't know - is the b/f's??? Is it Pakwah's?? Or is it the 7 other pimps who had her in the last month????

Spin the wheel and see where it lands because your guess is as good as this hors!!!

Hmmmm, I wonder if she knows who is the daddy (sperm injector) of her current children? Spin that wheel again!!!!

Now, here is the chump so-called "b/f" (YOU) wanting and encouraging her to have this hor baby and thinking she is wifey/mother material!!!

This is the HOR Matrix fellas!!! And your @sses better wake up soon or you'll pay a heavy price!!!!!!!!
 

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Pakwah said:
so i don't need this, but i want it, cuz i can do it and get away with it
Maybe, until she gets annoyed with you calling the shots and sends around her trucker boyfriend to level your house with his 18-wheeler.

Like it or not, you are setting yourself up for some major problems in the future. Especially if she decides she wants you back and you show her the door. Don't be available to her anymore, there's nothing in this for you that you can't get elsewhere.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Pakwah said:
So took some advice today and was over at the ex's and i tried to initiate something, on an off day, when bf was in town, not on her clock and.....
....got shot down.

Though she was enjoying every moment of the attention, still....
Lol, of course she's an attention HOR who just wanted to know if she could hypothetically still HAVE YOU - for validation.

Knowing that she COULD ALONE satisfied her. She didn't really want or need the sex. She just wanted to know that she could have you back at a snap of her fingers on a whim. In other words, it was a shyt test to see if she still had sexual control over you...which she does...and you FAILED. :crackup:

What you kiddos still don't understand is that women tend to be more hors than sluts. In other words, they tend to use sex more as a MEANS to an end, than the END in itself... You thought she just wanted your kawk? No, she really just wanted your emotional validation. Which you gave to her...and she promptly left you hanging with blue balls as soon as she got it. YUP, you got PLAID, not LAID!!!
 

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No this was the response i was looking for cuz now i can validate what you guys were saying and know exactly that. So if and when she ever wants it, it will be on my clock...if she is 'lucky' enough. Did i mention to that she said to me that she has not 'got off' since we lasted hooked up....damn guy doesnt even know what he is doing. I asked her to describe me in one word - the word she chose was 'luxury'. Dumb ass boyfriend.....cant satisfy his girl....stupid ass!! LOL
 

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Pakwah said:
No this was the response i was looking for cuz now i can validate what you guys were saying and know exactly that. So if and when she ever wants it, it will be on my clock...if she is 'lucky' enough. Did i mention to that she said to me that she has not 'got off' since we lasted hooked up....damn guy doesnt even know what he is doing. I asked her to describe me in one word - the word she chose was 'luxury'. Dumb ass boyfriend.....cant satisfy his girl....stupid ass!! LOL

Wait, you're laughing because she dumped you and then found him, right?



I really really recommend you forget this girl.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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