"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I know this is probably old news but I was looking at VH1. They were showing this show "There's Something About Miriam". You guys probably alread know the run down. The Girl was really a guy.But this guy looks better then most females. I know I'm young and still learning but this confuses me. I mean they already kissed the girl umm guy rubbed him/her down. What do you do if you get tricked like that. I mean do you beat the feminine guy up or what:confused: :confused: :confused:. I just don't know what to think on this one. Usually I can come up with my own solutions but I need some wisdom on this one. Disclamer: I never had sex with a man I hope,I can tell the difference between a man and a women but it can be tricky.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chosen1 said:
I can tell the difference between a man and a women but it can be tricky.
in that case, don't ever go to thailand.
 

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I don't know if you've read Tucker Max's website before but there's a story where a guy's telling him about transsexuals who pass off easily as women, and most guys never find out the difference...even in bed. I wouldn't say this would be as big of an issue in Iowa as it would be in say, Miami. I don't know if all that is 100% true but nevertheless it's something that's gonna be in the back of your head all the time.
 

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What's tricky about it? If you discover a penis, then there's a good chance he's a man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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heavens forbid i be confused !!!!
 

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Vypros said:
What's tricky about it? If you discover a penis, then there's a good chance he's a man.
what if he cut it off?
 
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beat the chit out of the fag, then punch his face so hard so that he will look like a monster and wont ever trick guys.

thats what the fag gets for trying to trick me
 

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I'm just confused as to what you do next. If nobody knows do you keep hitting it or what. I would get mad and plot something.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mr_elor said:
Calm down mate. Look, whatever bad experiences you've had, there are people you can talk to.
yeah right, if a fag disguises and trick you into fukin him i dont think you would be calmed when you touch a pee pee lol

nothing had happened to me, im just saying in case...

thats what the dude did in niptuck.
 

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What's wrong with you fags? What's all this obsession with chicks with d**ks? Do you guys really, really want c**k but you're too scared to go with guys? I'm sure there are forums you can go to and talk to people who will understand you.

Seriously, people keep bringing this up and making new threads every other day or something, and people keep discussing it!
 

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wolf116 said:
what if he cut it off?
Oh, comn. 9 times out of ten it's PAINFULLY obvious that it's a man. Hell, all you have to do is start paying attention. Big clue is the Adam's apple. There's no mistaking that. Also, they can't quite get the "girly" voice down.

If you find yourself with a man that you thought was a woman, then perhaps it's time for you to either upgrade your standards on women or take an introspective look at your sexuality.
 

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If you find yourself with a man that you thought was a woman, then perhaps it's time for you to either upgrade your standards on women or take an introspective look at your sexuality.
lol
 

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Some of the SEA lady-boys can be pretty deceptive, but in the US it's generally painfully obvious who was born with wedding tackle and who wasn't.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gonna rip off LMS here:

"Say NO to Ho's and Ho-mo's!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
 

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Consider that 99% of all TS are quite obvious in looking like a man in disguise, you have better luck of winning the lotto then letting one fool you.

Heck if one fools you it would be probably your own fault either from being wasted or doing E.
 

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IsiMan84 said:
I don't know if you've read Tucker Max's website before but there's a story where a guy's telling him about transsexuals who pass off easily as women, and most guys never find out the difference...even in bed. I wouldn't say this would be as big of an issue in Iowa as it would be in say, Miami. I don't know if all that is 100% true but nevertheless it's something that's gonna be in the back of your head all the time.


Damn you going to Iowa State Univ. too?

Didn't know anyone here was from Iowa like me :D!
 

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DJDamage said:
Consider that 99% of all TS are quite obvious in looking like a man in disguise ...
I'm betting you never been to Thailand.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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