"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sex with a girl on her period

What's your take on sex when a girl's on her period?

  • I love it!

    Votes: 4 10.8%
  • It's kinda icky, but I doesn't stop me. I like sex.

    Votes: 12 32.4%
  • ONLY IF SHE'S HORNY AND BEGS FOR IT.

    Votes: 7 18.9%
  • No sex on her period, under any cirumstances!

    Votes: 14 37.8%

  • Total voters
    37
  • Poll closed .

ThunderMaverick

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How many guys with regular girlfriends or a steady partner do this? What's everyone's take on it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're sick! Just can't get enough, can you, you sicko?!?!?

:eek: :trouble: :mad: :nono: :down: :box: :eek:
 

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Wow that reply was fast. It's not a personal question, it's a general one, Jr.
 

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Uhh...no.
 

The Truth

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No!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've surfed the red-tide a few times w. GF's.
Never a turn on... always pretty "icky" as you said.

But... from now on... I'm over it.

I was reading a book on shaminism... and their perspective was this.

Its a woman's energetic cleansing time. AKA: she sheds all her negative emotions, etc... through her period. Thus... the insane b!tch-fest around "that time of the month."

... Was an interesting perspective, and resonated perfectly sound to me. Either way... sh!t is naturally a pretty ill turnoff, IMO.
 
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ThunderMaverick said:
How many guys with regular girlfriends or a steady partner do this? What's everyone's take on it?
OMG this has to be a joke?Dude are you f*cken stupid!You will get disease if you have sex with a girl on her period,go to www.iwannaknow.org/glossary/e_i.htm

It will prove im telling the truth,dude come on now you should have known better
 

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"41.67%" of guys here suck in bed :p

p.s. i love it cuz girls get extra horny when they're on their period :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Where's that dude that has the sign off

"Don't quitter 'til you hither in the ****ter" when you need him.

Bet he voted "hell yes". I say yes and for the 45% that say no, you need to expand your horizons.
 

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*proud of his Red Wings*
 

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dreamxhenry, what diseases are you talking about? Regular STDs? Something else?
 

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bit messy but i have done it when really horny.

Lucky I own a red towel
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would've answered "only if she begs" but she doesn't need to beg. If the mood arises, it's definitely an option. In fact, I've pulled the tampon out myself a couple times, blood washes off. Talk about funky foreplay! Women seem to be more adement about it then men. Women are more likely to say "NO WAY!" before a guy. But sometimes, the thought of the nasty/dirtiness of it really gets a woman off.

You just gotta play it by ear.
 

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DarkLight said:
Its a woman's energetic cleansing time. AKA: she sheds all her negative emotions, etc... through her period. Thus... the insane b!tch-fest around "that time of the month."
Weird.. my ex LDR oneitis came down one weekend to break up with me. While on her long drive down she started her period. I wonder if this played a huge factor in the break up when considering staying together. Anyway, didn't matter since I knew she was banging at least one other guy. I didn't want to hit that on her red letter day, but knew I wouldn't get any afterwards so I stuck the blood war out. Not fun - got on boxers, sheets, etc. :rolleyes:
 

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Tip:

Fux them in the shower: easy clean up!

Since you're being all dirty and all, you can use the opportunity to pee on them, it's good for a laugh.

Duh-duh-dirty-dirty!
 

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I've done it before. Icky yes, was she beggin for it? Damn straight. But I only do it in the shower. Don't want that stuff crusting up anywhere
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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