"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sex with a girl on her period

What's your take on sex when a girl's on her period?

  • I love it!

    Votes: 4 10.8%
  • It's kinda icky, but I doesn't stop me. I like sex.

    Votes: 12 32.4%
  • ONLY IF SHE'S HORNY AND BEGS FOR IT.

    Votes: 7 18.9%
  • No sex on her period, under any cirumstances!

    Votes: 14 37.8%

  • Total voters
    37
  • Poll closed .

ThunderMaverick

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How many guys with regular girlfriends or a steady partner do this? What's everyone's take on it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You're sick! Just can't get enough, can you, you sicko?!?!?

:eek: :trouble: :mad: :nono: :down: :box: :eek:
 

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Wow that reply was fast. It's not a personal question, it's a general one, Jr.
 

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Uhh...no.
 

The Truth

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No!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've surfed the red-tide a few times w. GF's.
Never a turn on... always pretty "icky" as you said.

But... from now on... I'm over it.

I was reading a book on shaminism... and their perspective was this.

Its a woman's energetic cleansing time. AKA: she sheds all her negative emotions, etc... through her period. Thus... the insane b!tch-fest around "that time of the month."

... Was an interesting perspective, and resonated perfectly sound to me. Either way... sh!t is naturally a pretty ill turnoff, IMO.
 
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ThunderMaverick said:
How many guys with regular girlfriends or a steady partner do this? What's everyone's take on it?
OMG this has to be a joke?Dude are you f*cken stupid!You will get disease if you have sex with a girl on her period,go to www.iwannaknow.org/glossary/e_i.htm

It will prove im telling the truth,dude come on now you should have known better
 

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"41.67%" of guys here suck in bed :p

p.s. i love it cuz girls get extra horny when they're on their period :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Where's that dude that has the sign off

"Don't quitter 'til you hither in the ****ter" when you need him.

Bet he voted "hell yes". I say yes and for the 45% that say no, you need to expand your horizons.
 

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*proud of his Red Wings*
 

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dreamxhenry, what diseases are you talking about? Regular STDs? Something else?
 

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bit messy but i have done it when really horny.

Lucky I own a red towel
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I would've answered "only if she begs" but she doesn't need to beg. If the mood arises, it's definitely an option. In fact, I've pulled the tampon out myself a couple times, blood washes off. Talk about funky foreplay! Women seem to be more adement about it then men. Women are more likely to say "NO WAY!" before a guy. But sometimes, the thought of the nasty/dirtiness of it really gets a woman off.

You just gotta play it by ear.
 

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DarkLight said:
Its a woman's energetic cleansing time. AKA: she sheds all her negative emotions, etc... through her period. Thus... the insane b!tch-fest around "that time of the month."
Weird.. my ex LDR oneitis came down one weekend to break up with me. While on her long drive down she started her period. I wonder if this played a huge factor in the break up when considering staying together. Anyway, didn't matter since I knew she was banging at least one other guy. I didn't want to hit that on her red letter day, but knew I wouldn't get any afterwards so I stuck the blood war out. Not fun - got on boxers, sheets, etc. :rolleyes:
 

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Tip:

Fux them in the shower: easy clean up!

Since you're being all dirty and all, you can use the opportunity to pee on them, it's good for a laugh.

Duh-duh-dirty-dirty!
 

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I've done it before. Icky yes, was she beggin for it? Damn straight. But I only do it in the shower. Don't want that stuff crusting up anywhere
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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