Sex with a friend: yes or no?

[Bullman]

Well, here is the story. (My english sucks, but i´ll try)

I have a friend girl. Her name is Ana. She´s incredibly intelligent and her beauty is an... 8, let´s say.

I like to be with her because she helps me to find another girls, more beautyful than she is. When girls see me with her, they look at me in a different way and I have more chances at bars and pubs just for being with Ana.

I own her a lot of nights of pleasure, and sure she knows it.

Well, now she wants to be with me, she told that "some things are happening when she thinks of me" (I laughed at her and change subjects when she told me that) and a lot of green lights had appear on the way.

I really want to have sex with her, BUT I´m affraid to lose her friendship and her help if I do it.... WHICH MEANS: Not as much girls as right now.

It´s a matter of short term interests (sex with Ana) versus long term interests (sex with a lot of girls thanks to Ana´s presence by me side).

I don´t consider myself to be a REAL friend (I want her just for my personal interests) but I don´t want to hurt she or lose her friendship.

What should I do?

 

[MMAer]

Do not have sex with this girl. If you value her friendship for whatever reason. Even if it's only to get with other girls. I made this mistake once with a close female friend now she has a boyfriend and things a weird between us we never hang out and theres just a weird vibe.

 

[Skel]

You can only be friends with fat chicks. **** the hot ones.

 

[Azmodan]

Controversial subject, imo. Usually, I'd say, if you mean friends in the sense that you talk occasionally, you've known each other a while, and nothing's happened but now, for some reason, it might... then no big deal.

If you're hanging out with this girl pretty consistently I'd stay away from it because the feelings involved a probably a little stronger.

 

[cyp6]

hook her up with with one of your buddies. thats what i would do