"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sex still sacred after loosing your virginity?

verysuave

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or does sex just becomes yeah, its just another day in the office kind of thing.

I mean, yeah, the thrill of chasing and playing games will always be dynamic but, sex is still just sex would you say?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ollie

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Haha that's a situational question. Usually just another day at the office. The thrill of the chase never seems to go away, at least for me, but the act in and of itself doesn't hold as much value after a while. Every now and then you find a girl that changes your mind though. Makes all the boring girls worth it. If you want to get good at it and have it often, the most important thing I find is to take sex off the pedestal.
 

Jitterbug

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I still sacrifice a small goat to Venus everytime I have sex.
 

Leporello

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Sex ought to be a regular part of your life. That doesn't mean it can't be emotionally significant. Viewing sex as 'sacred' can lead to all kinds of emotional distortions. Two people having sex aren't 'intertwining their souls' or something. It's all part of human relationships.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oakraiderz2

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Jitterbug said:
I still sacrifice a small goat to Venus everytime I have sex.
You little sh*t!!! I thought i was the only one!
 

sodbuster

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Sex is like pizza, they were great as a kid, but after you've had beer and pizza and every topping under the sun. Pizza doesn't mean as much as it did-not saying I don't eat it,but it isn't always my first choice in life
 

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Sex isn't sacred because everyone can do it. I've made some mistakes, but sex should always be pleasurable if its not you should be going out with people that excite you.
 
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