"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sex still sacred after loosing your virginity?

verysuave

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or does sex just becomes yeah, its just another day in the office kind of thing.

I mean, yeah, the thrill of chasing and playing games will always be dynamic but, sex is still just sex would you say?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ollie

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Haha that's a situational question. Usually just another day at the office. The thrill of the chase never seems to go away, at least for me, but the act in and of itself doesn't hold as much value after a while. Every now and then you find a girl that changes your mind though. Makes all the boring girls worth it. If you want to get good at it and have it often, the most important thing I find is to take sex off the pedestal.
 

Jitterbug

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I still sacrifice a small goat to Venus everytime I have sex.
 

Leporello

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Sex ought to be a regular part of your life. That doesn't mean it can't be emotionally significant. Viewing sex as 'sacred' can lead to all kinds of emotional distortions. Two people having sex aren't 'intertwining their souls' or something. It's all part of human relationships.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oakraiderz2

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Jitterbug said:
I still sacrifice a small goat to Venus everytime I have sex.
You little sh*t!!! I thought i was the only one!
 

sodbuster

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Sex is like pizza, they were great as a kid, but after you've had beer and pizza and every topping under the sun. Pizza doesn't mean as much as it did-not saying I don't eat it,but it isn't always my first choice in life
 

Trajhenkhet01

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Sex isn't sacred because everyone can do it. I've made some mistakes, but sex should always be pleasurable if its not you should be going out with people that excite you.
 
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