I have been dating this girl for over a month. I've slept in her bed several times, but did not have sex with her yet. She always tries to paint the picture that she is a "good girl". I am now in the situation where I do not know if she wants it or not. I assume she does, but I do not want to rush things. Any advice?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sex - Sooner or Later?
- Thread starter JD4334
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
10 bucks that the girl thinks you're a homo.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
You are MAD! Shez is right.....you will go straight into a LJBF if your not really careful.JD4334 said:
I had a girl who thought she was a good girl once........Problem is she was focusing on the "good" part. I was focusing on the "girl" part.
YOU NEED TO DO THE FOLLOWING NEXT TIME YOUR WITH HER.
Basically the way i played it and the way you should to is start making out with her on her bed pref....a bed....then start some gentel kino on the Erogenous Zones. After this move you hand down inbetween her legs and remind her shes a girl and she has certain needs.....Get her wet as a river and she will shag you good girl or bad girl alike.
It works a charm. I got a girl who said she was def not going to sleep with me until i had dated her for a month. I did this on the second date. 4 days in.
Got the shag that night. She said it was ok in the end as she "Really really liked me" so she made the exception.
If you dont know about Erogenous zones.....I suggest you take a look at a post I did a month or so back on it.....
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=102274&highlight=Female+Zones
Sarge On!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.