I have been dating this girl for over a month. I've slept in her bed several times, but did not have sex with her yet. She always tries to paint the picture that she is a "good girl". I am now in the situation where I do not know if she wants it or not. I assume she does, but I do not want to rush things. Any advice?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Sex - Sooner or Later?
- Thread starter JD4334
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
10 bucks that the girl thinks you're a homo.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
You are MAD! Shez is right.....you will go straight into a LJBF if your not really careful.JD4334 said:
I had a girl who thought she was a good girl once........Problem is she was focusing on the "good" part. I was focusing on the "girl" part.
YOU NEED TO DO THE FOLLOWING NEXT TIME YOUR WITH HER.
Basically the way i played it and the way you should to is start making out with her on her bed pref....a bed....then start some gentel kino on the Erogenous Zones. After this move you hand down inbetween her legs and remind her shes a girl and she has certain needs.....Get her wet as a river and she will shag you good girl or bad girl alike.
It works a charm. I got a girl who said she was def not going to sleep with me until i had dated her for a month. I did this on the second date. 4 days in.
Got the shag that night. She said it was ok in the end as she "Really really liked me" so she made the exception.
If you dont know about Erogenous zones.....I suggest you take a look at a post I did a month or so back on it.....
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=102274&highlight=Female+Zones
Sarge On!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.