"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Got a question for you guys


With my ex..when we would have sex..i would usually get her off a few times by fingering her before we got to intercourse. She was extremely tight so it was impossible for me to last long but i figured since i got her off beforehand..then i could be a little selfish.

Anyways..with this current girl, i wanna change that up and i was wondering, when ur screwing a girl and ur about to *** but you want to last longer what do you do? Do u just stop thrusting, just slow down the pace, or what?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by ghostin
Got a question for you guys


With my ex..when we would have sex..i would usually get her off a few times by fingering her before we got to intercourse. She was extremely tight so it was impossible for me to last long but i figured since i got her off beforehand..then i could be a little selfish.

Anyways..with this current girl, i wanna change that up and i was wondering, when ur screwing a girl and ur about to *** but you want to last longer what do you do? Do u just stop thrusting, just slow down the pace, or what?
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i usually stop moving but still stay inside her. she seems to like it and starts to move faster herself
 
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just stop for a little to get some air and recover yourself. It doesnt matter if you leave it in or not just dont be like "HOLY **** im about to blow, give me a second." other things you might want to do is excercise your penis, on your own time at home. Get some good quality porn and beat it, but dont just go 1, 2, 3 and blow it, take your time pace yourself, use the stop and go technique, do kegel excercises and youll be good. But dont over do it, other wise you wont be able to *** period, unless you get a REALLY good blow job or a hand job.
 
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first while your fvcking make sure your breathing deep. this relaxes your muscles notice how your tence up before your about to blow. Next physically relax your muscles, pretend your in a pool and let everything go expecially your ass and thigh muscles.
Also concentrate not on the feeling of you dlck but on her smell, your hands on her ass anything else u enjoy. lastly right before you about to blow clamp down on your PC muscle (muscle that stop piss flow) practice when you jack.

recap
deep breathing
muscle relaxation
concentration
PC clamp

have fun
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Google for "kegels"

Also, think of the progression towards your orgasm as a scale 1-10.

1 being basically nothing...maybe not even hard
5 the sex in between 1 and 10
10 you ***

now, think of where your 8 and 9 are. This is where you arent going to be cumming, dont really feel like you are but can if you want. Thats where you want to focus on. Just try to focus on where your point of no return is and practice at maintaining just below that point
 
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